So we are eligible for daycare but because of my so check stubs we now have to pay 900 dollars a month, my so makes about 800 more than I but because he pays the mortgage he said he is not helping with the daycare. Originally I paid daycare and all utilities. But now I am supposed to pay 100 more than his mortgage is, plus utilities I will be completely broke all month. Even if he paid daycare and the mortgage he would still have 1600 hundred a month where as I will have maybe 300 if that. I have never met anyone more selfish than he.
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@queenmeeks, believe this is no “love struck” I’m so in love with an asshole kinda thing. It’s more I need to get everything in order to leave, I don’t have family close or any friends. And of course I can’t take the kids out of state either . I just wish it was different because my oldest always says “ he wants us to be happy” or together. And he don’t want us to leave. So it breaks my heart
@braindeadmama, Exactly if it was the other way around. I would say “ don’t stress about it, we will do it together” but in his eyes he does so much more than me. So he has no interest in helping me. I shouldn’t have to stress. If I ask for help with anything he is so broke, but than I find 300 worth of work out drinks and supplements. That’s just one example.
@let_there_be_life, nope. He always has to in my book. Y’all made babies together, y’all are a team, therefor everything is equal and shared
Tell him paying child support PLUS half of daycare is going to take more of his check so he better man up and father up
@let_there_be_life, why continue to stay if it’s simply just dealing with each other for the kids? That’s not healthy for you or them.
@sboolay, @momma_dee, @braindeadmama, he has always been this way. Mine is mine his is his, he pays mortgage and house payment, I pay daycare and utilities, groceries, he does if he has too.
@boymamachronicles, more like we deal with each other for the kids sake, try making things better but it seems to not help
When you’re in a relationship, is not his bills and your bills. It’s y’alls bills together. You combine both incomes and whatever is leftovers after bills, daycare, gas and food, you split the leftover income in half.
I agree with @braindeadmama
If I’m broke then he’s broke 💸
He wants to be makin babies then he can help pay for daycare 💯 tell him “sorry that’s the responsibility of being a parent” 🤷🏻♀️
No that's really selfish, why don't you talk about
everything needs to be combined
His money with your money
His bike with your bills
Whatever's left is both
Nope. Your money is my money honey. If it’s not, then we’re not in a relationship 🤷🏼♀️
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Ladies. How much do you pay for daycare per week? I thought I was paying so much less than I am... my dad paid for what I thought was a month in advance since I just started working again, and it was $700. He actually only paid for two weeks. I told my boss that next week wasn't paid for and that if I didn't pay them I literally couldn't even work and he's gonna write me a check (best boss ever or what?!) but holy SHIT THATS EXPENSIVE
Why Are Many Women Unaware of Their Own Anatomy?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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so yes ima go hard in the comments bec...
@let_there_be_life, ew nope. He has the wrong mindset. That’s messed up