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Chandra Wejs
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So we are eligible for daycare but because of my so check stubs we now have to pay 900 dollars a month, my so makes…

So we are eligible for daycare but because of my so check stubs we now have to pay 900 dollars a month, my so makes about 800 more than I but because he pays the mortgage he said he is not helping with the daycare. Originally I paid daycare and all utilities. But now I am supposed to pay 100 more than his mortgage is, plus utilities I will be completely broke all month. Even if he paid daycare and the mortgage he would still have 1600 hundred a month where as I will have maybe 300 if that. I have never met anyone more selfish than he.

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braindeadmama

Queen BitchМама сына (2 года)

@let_there_be_life, ew nope. He has the wrong mindset. That’s messed up

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@queenmeeks, believe this is no “love struck” I’m so in love with an asshole kinda thing. It’s more I need to get everything in order to leave, I don’t have family close or any friends. And of course I can’t take the kids out of state either . I just wish it was different because my oldest always says “ he wants us to be happy” or together. And he don’t want us to leave. So it breaks my heart

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@braindeadmama, Exactly if it was the other way around. I would say “ don’t stress about it, we will do it together” but in his eyes he does so much more than me. So he has no interest in helping me. I shouldn’t have to stress. If I ask for help with anything he is so broke, but than I find 300 worth of work out drinks and supplements. That’s just one example.

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braindeadmama

Queen BitchМама сына (2 года)

@let_there_be_life, nope. He always has to in my book. Y’all made babies together, y’all are a team, therefor everything is equal and shared

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

Tell him paying child support PLUS half of daycare is going to take more of his check so he better man up and father up

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queenmeeks

Queen MeeksМама дочки (2 года)

@let_there_be_life, why continue to stay if it’s simply just dealing with each other for the kids? That’s not healthy for you or them.

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@sboolay, you would think!

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@sboolay, @momma_dee, @braindeadmama, he has always been this way. Mine is mine his is his, he pays mortgage and house payment, I pay daycare and utilities, groceries, he does if he has too.

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@boymamachronicles, more like we deal with each other for the kids sake, try making things better but it seems to not help

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let_there_be_life

Chandra WejsМама троих детей

@queenmeeks, eight long years 😭

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sssssssssssssssss1111

Zzzzzzzz

When you’re in a relationship, is not his bills and your bills. It’s y’alls bills together. You combine both incomes and whatever is leftovers after bills, daycare, gas and food, you split the leftover income in half.

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del_1543699727_momma_dee

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I agree with @braindeadmama

If I’m broke then he’s broke 💸

He wants to be makin babies then he can help pay for daycare 💯 tell him “sorry that’s the responsibility of being a parent” 🤷🏻‍♀️

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roses702

Rose Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

No that's really selfish, why don't you talk about

everything needs to be combined

His money with your money

His bike with your bills

Whatever's left is both

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braindeadmama

Queen BitchМама сына (2 года)

Nope. Your money is my money honey. If it’s not, then we’re not in a relationship 🤷🏼‍♀️

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queenmeeks

Queen MeeksМама дочки (2 года)

Y’all live together and he’s this selfish? Damn.

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motherhoodchronicles

Jess🌹♥️Мама сына (1 год)

and he's your SO? like y'all are together? 🤔

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