I don't know how to feel. I work 40 plus hours a week and just found lots of porn on my husband's…

Most men and women like porn. At least it’s that and not talking to another person..

@duckduckgoose I wish I knew if he was. I does not let me see is phone he is always on it and very protective of it. I feel like I am not good enough for him

My husband and I don’t watch porn either and I would feel very betrayed if I found out he was. It’s so unhealthy, I don’t understand how anyone would be ok with their significant other watching other people have sex. So sorry you’re going through this. I know the gut wrenching feeling you’re having unfortunately.

I feel this way about my hubby watching that crap. It made us have problems in the past & now he doesn't watch it, yes men and woman watch it but NOT ALL of us do! It seriously ruins your sex drive and your relationship with one another especially if your not watching it together. I tried the whole "yea we can watch it together let's see where that gets us maybe it will make us stronger" yeah, no. Just no. Its not for me. Its not for us. It might be for other people but not for me. I told him how that stuff made me feel without raging about it, he understood cause I've always been insecure about myself, him not watching that stuff anymore has made our relationship last for 7 years❤ it would have ended long long ago, @davidmom I hope everything gets better mama❤ the most I can say is try it out with him and see where things go, it may or may not be for you but it won't hurt to try, look where I am with my family❤💪 not saying my life is better than yours cause its not, just saying that maybe if you try it might boost your relationship 😜 but like I said, its not for everyone❤

Watching porn is very sinful. Pray against it. My faith aside, it’s definitely for single people, if anything...but I still believe Gods word & its sexual immorality. I hope he will open up to you & you two can get rid of the porn

I just don't know what to do I feel so like I am not enough for him with him needing to watch porn

Yea no no no hubby won't even look at other real life females he wouldn't dare to do that fuck that gettibg off by another girl weather its porn or not don't like it

@garay88, how is she not around as much? She is working a regular 40 hour/week job. Theoretically, her husband should also be working the same amount. When they’re together/off work, he should be spending time with her, not watching porn and making her feel less than enough.

@davidmom, I’m sorry that your husband is making you feel that way. I hope you can get it sorted out with him.

If you dont feel comfortable with it discuss it with him. Tell him to be honest with you, that way you can work through it. If there is something missing in your sexual relationship with him, ask him to open up. Ask what he likes about it and why he watches it. Also tell him why you feel uncomfortable about it. It’ll be a hard conversation but it will help. OH and dont get mad while you have this conversation even though it upsets you because he won’t want to open up. Especially if he’s lying about it.

My SO and i had a talk about it. I am strongly against porn. I am disgusted by it. I understand its a job some people choose to do. Great for them, i just don’t want it near me, or whomever im with. It is something i address very early in my relationships that i am not ever going to tolerate. A couple times i have caught my SO. But the last time, was probably maybe 8 - 7 years ago. I pretty much gave him an ultimatum, get over his porn habits or im walking out.

What would bother me is being so protective of his phone. I wouldn't care if mine did but i would not like the lieing for sure. We don't watch it though. I can say it wouldn't bother me but if it happened I'd probably feel insecure or something.