My sister and husband want to throw a gender reveal. We did one for my daughter because I had had 3 miscarriages between her and my son. I DID have a miscarriage earlier this year. I'm not against the idea but don't want or need the added stress and I kind of feel like at this point I would be seen as attention seeking. Not many people want us to have this baby (I didn't in the beginning either because I have so many health issues)...which isn't their business but they keep shoving it in my face. Even going as far as to try and scare me saying the state will take them because I can't handle the 2 I already have (my oldest comes over every other weekend and both kids are used to not having to share the adults in their lives which would be hard on ANYONE). Anyway, now that I spoke to my OB and have been assured I am at no more of a risk than anyone else of having something bad happen during delivery. I kind of like the idea of a gender reveal for the few people that supported us through our loss and healthy pregnancies.

I know I kind of went all over the place here but I'd like some honest feedback please.