I agree with @lex_6, maybe give it some time for him to take in the thought of having another baby and let him have some time to think it through and then bring it up again and maybe he might be willing to give another baby a chance. 2 kids is a bit to handle but anyone can do it, I don’t want to make it sound like it’s all about me, but after having my first child I for sure want another I want Emma to have a buddy to play with and I think I can handle 2 kids. Hope things go well!
Any baby can be born with acid reflux... He sounds like a asshole! Just because you didnt get pregnant immediately after pushing one out thats just ridiculous. Wish you best dear... 💕
How could he be so dismissive? Yes it's a life altering decision. However, it's a decision that you should both make together! Every baby is different, and so your second may be the complete oposite of Willow! Men just don't understand the beautiful trauma that our bodies go through to grow and birth our babies. They should be supportive if we can't have sex. He is right on one thing though, it can be overwhelming to have 2 babies. But that doesn't mean it can't be done. Maybe he's feeling a bit guilty that he won't be there as much as he would like to help out with the 2 babies? Maybe just ask him to think about it, and then you two can revisit the topic at a later time. Don't be discouraged. There's a possibility for more children in the future.
Update on the second baby. My boyfriend pretty much said no because we didn't have another one when he wanted to (which was like weeks after having Willow. I couldn't even have sex at that point.) He also said that if I did have another one now I would be on my own. (For willow I had him for 6 weeks and lived with my parents so I wasn't overwhelmed on my own which I'm super thankful for) Willow was a problem baby. She had severe acid reflux and I didn't know for a long time vefore finally getting prescribed anti acids. There's no garuntee that the next baby will or won't have the same issue. So he's saying that once he's gone back to work I won't be able to handle two kids on my own. I don't know how to feel and I'm super upset. @lex_6 @agerbs92 @carol.braganca.2014 @eze.love @sashalicious @tyrellp @michelletw
I am going to be 32 weeks or 8 months tommrrow with baby 2 I am bigger than with baby 1
I am going to be 32 weeks on Tuesday or 8 months after the second one is born no more for us
@mommy1991 your young and you can have another one when willow is 4 or 5 years old plus I am 6 years older than my sister