my child’s father who has very very rarely been apart of this pregnancy and who also told me just do me is now giving me a really hard time about her name which is connected to mine. i don’t want to be selfish but i don’t want to keep making sacrifices for somebody who not even really in the picture. am i wrong?
I mean, i was engaged and he wasnt really all that into my pregnancy. Came to the appointments when he could, 2 ultrasounds and the c section. Most men wont really be around espicially if your not together during the pregnancy, now that hes here hes amazing but pregnant 🤷🏻
No, I would honestly say you pick the name but offer him the middle. That way you at least are offering something, but at the same time firm on what you want
he hasn’t been to any of the apts he won’t be at the baby shower he very rarely reaches out to check on us but is strongly opinionated with her name idk if he’s even gonna be supportive during birth
@bbymomma In his words.... Just do you 😉 If you love her name, keep it! I'd feel worse for giving in and then him keep his pattern of rarely being apart of her life.
@bbymomma I'd agree with the other ladies then. If you think he won't be supportive of the child I wouldn't. If you think it is your relationship alone and he might be better after ,sure, if not then no. Just give your reasons and explain your thoughts. If he gets mad it is on him and his actions
@ashleybradford92, and that’s what i did he likes the middle name but refuses to accept the first name. the beginning of my pregnancy we were in a relationship. this man has put me through so much hurt. left me. lied to me. slept around and embarrassed me. im finally at a point where im ok with what’s happened between me and him but i am so connected to baby girl. i talk to her everyday and call her by her name. my family loves it and he just gets a major attitude.
@ashleybradford92, I feel confident he’ll financially provide for her. Not too sure about emotion connection cause he doesn’t value women but still I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place.
@bbymomma I'm so sorry he put you through that. Definitely tell him so, tell him your point and where you're coming from. Tell him if youre worried he will even be in the picture. Put it on him momma and be happy❤
In the end it is you that signs the birth certificate and lists the name so you do you! 😉
@bbymomma he said "do u" so I don't see what the problem is 🤷🏽♀️ & what's her name 👀
I’m single yet I’m still giving her his last name. Her name is Kenszlie Chamile Chaney. @yatyat
@bbymomma 😍 She has my initials & if I had a girl I was gonna name her Kenzii
❤️ I think her name is beautiful! My middle name is Mekenzie. I even tried to make her initials similar to his. His are CKC. It just doesn’t feel right to listen to him and her an Amoura or Mya
@bbymomma I'm with u on this one! & I wouldn't change it either, hell my oldest doesn't have his father's last name because I knew he would be an absent father! Best decision I ever made!
I wouldn't compromise on her name. If he can't be involved during your pregnancy, he shouldn't have a say. Are you giving the baby his last name?
@bbymomma, he should just be happy you’re giving her last his last name! You doing “just do you” didn’t even have to do that. Not your fault he hasn’t been around. Maybe if he was around it would be different. You’ve already named her. Done deal.
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
I feel like this app is useless when literally no moms or moms to be will even give me the time of day and send one message at the very least and try to get to know me when I’m a sweet and kind girl that’s just wants to meet new people that are going through the same as me.How Hard is it to ask for that to happen?cause I really want to know.I just don’t understand.Am I too young or am I not popular on here? it’s something obviously and I don’t know why it is.
Damn Af i guess its a start for a better month...CD1 for me who wants to make this group for the lucky ladies tryin to get that BFP...lets make this group fun Af due December 9
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In the end it is you that signs the birth certificate and lists the name so you do you! 😉
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@bbymomma, he should just be happy you’re giving her last his last name! You doing “just do you” didn’t even have to do that. Not your fault he hasn’t been around. Maybe if he was around it would be different. You’ve already named her. Done deal.