My MIL is driving me nuts. She’s currently mad at me because she asked me if I would come to her house for Christmas on…

No time for her 🤔 thats your MIL not mother lol mayyybe her kids need to make time for her thats not your job.

And i also live in canada i wouldnt commit to diving far on christmas eve

I’d tell her “but you’re welcome to come here!”

@mamachey, right? Even if my husband wasn’t working, we wouldn’t go. They are such toxic people, and the second I stopped putting all the effort in to have them see the kids, they basically dropped off the face of the earth. Haven’t came to any of the kids things or birthday is at least 3 years.

But yes, let me drive out of my way to you and your husband the night before Christmas.

She really makes me laugh. 😂

Selfish people 🤷🏾‍♀️ that think the world revolves around them

@mamachey, 100%.

@laniejay, I tried that a few years ago, our house is “too small” for them.

😂🤷‍♀️

They are what I call fb grandparents, they want us to go there so they can post about how they love that their family comes to them to celebrate and how they decorated their house “just for us”.

Buuuuuut then grandpa withholds gifts and stuff because his “Father’s Day present wasn’t good enough this year”... they just aren’t nice people.

@day1401, then no worries. They won’t take you up on it, but ball is in their court and you don’t look like you’re keeping them from the kids. Sounds like you’re better not seeing them anyways.

@laniejay, mhm, I’m just more annoyed that they make it my fault.

But, the ones who care, make the effort. That’s all the matters :).

@day1401, trust me I get it. Everything is my fault in my MILs eyes. 😒 I’ve accepted it and she can go fuck a duck.

@laniejay, in-laws are so fun 😄! Lol

There should be an Crazy MIL support group lol

My mother in law is dead but hubby has step mother but he has nothing to do with her cause she's two face she talk shit behind my back and when he found out what she said we do not visit hiscdad

@segreto46, there really should be lol

@carol.braganca.2014, we’ve definitely distanced ourselves a lot more, especially after our wedding. She tried to make my husband feel bad for “letting” me tell them off because her husband called my 7 yr old a bitch for not wanting to sleep over at their house.

But I’m the bad person? LOL

@day1401 when me and hubby was dating his step mother wanted him to married her daughter I never been rude to her always respectful and I think she's jealous of me cause hubby picked me than her daughter whose divorce have a bf

@carol.braganca.2014, she wanted him to marry her daughter? That’s so messed up! Wow 😕

@day1401 I know my hubby is divorce for 10 years I am the second wife plus I am not portugese