Suffering from Post partem and no wonder..how can I not when I am not allowed to be a mother to my daughter.Everyone undermines me at every stop.Taking over and criticizing my every move.Just to bath her gets unwanted comments and attention..telling me how I should not do this and not do that.I swear if it wasn't for her I would have made an end to everything already.I don't know how long I can take it still.I have to be on meds just to prevent me from crying all the time..this is not the life I want to live 😢Not the way I thought my life with her would start off.
Zee, ask everyone to let you make your own mistakes if that's what they see it as. The same thing happened with me and I literally lost it. Don't go down that road, politely tell them to back away for a while and let you learn how to be a mother
Ladies...if your husband has a friend of the opposite sex who is asking for advice from him about what to do about her cheating husband....how would you feel about it? Would you even let that conversation go on? I would like to get every and any opinion on this matter
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I was on my way home from picking my DD up. Stopped at a red light and the lady next to me had her newborn in the front seat (rear faced). It was a van, no kids in the back seats. I pray they have safe travels and someone tells her how it is unsafe. I couldn't get her attention or I would have. It gave me anxiety.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Girl you need to stand your ground... Us being 1st time mommys need to be firm... My mom and all the rest of the family did the same to me... Then i said to them "you had your time and you did rais your baby so let me raise mine" and if the have no kidz and still comment then tell them your not interested... Sometimes you have to be straight forward... Good luck.. But be firm.. She is your daughter...