@keeping_upwith_harperkate, it was probably the lack of sleep the first few weeks but I ended getting them on the same routine. They napped at the same time and I always laid them down at the same time for bed. I also felt like I couldn’t do much for my one year old but within a few weeks we were fine. I also made time to play with my 1 year old while the baby napped like reading books etc.
@boymomx3, I think by the time I deliver mine will 11 months apart. What’s the hardest part?
@keeping_upwith_harperkate, for it it’s just trying to balance my time between them. I’m always afraid that one day I gave one more attention than the other.