@turk thanks and I am

@mama.of.2.under.2 u will luv stay positive!! And babydust ur way❤❤

@_ivyjayde thanks and it really has been hard... oh wow I'm so sorry that it took so long. I get it I have a mom who was told not to have anymore kids after her first few... I'm the middle child.. I was supposed to have 4 older brothers but instead I got 2 older sisters... my sister was supposed to be a triplet and the other one a twin and then I'm supposed to be a twin as well. So I think that's why none of my pregnancies didn't take because they must have all been multiples.... I know my last one before my son I was pregnant with twins and I lost them due to being beaten by my ex and his gf at the time. And I get it be whole complication thing both my pregnancies had complications but I don't regret my kids and I don't regret getting pregnant it's all I ever wanted after growing up with a family that hates me.

I'm so sorry to hear, so glad you were blessed with your 2. I hope you get to have at least 1 more little blessing, lots of baby dust to you.❤️

This is also my 7th pregnancy, with 2 living children already. I never got further testing to see why I kept miscarrying before, I had 3, 1 being a molar back to back before having my toddler. & Then I had 1 before this pregnancy. I understand how hard it can be going through that. I have 2 aunt, on each side that had trouble conceiving or complications with pregnancy and were even told they shouldn't have kids, I think the fear of finding out something could be wrong kind of kept me from wanting to see if there were deeper lying issues with my struggle to conceive. It took us almost 2 years to get pregnant with our toddler

@_ivyjayde same I was diagnosed with pcos when I was 13-14 years old.... they told me and my mom that having kids could kill me I will develop all kinds of problems during pregnancy that can affect during labor and for the rest of life.... so I got on my first bc at that time to prevent even though I wasn't having sex yet.... I had my son when I was 18 and my daughter before my 20th birthday.... I'm trying to conceive my last and final child before I have to get my tubes tied because I'm too fertile this would be my 7th pregnancy in the matter of 4 years... I have thyroid issues I have to get it removed well part of it. So I want to have my last child. Asap before my OB/gyno tells me it's time to stop having kids... I honestly want 2 more but I don't think I can do 4 kids right now with my oldest not even potty trained yet.

@mama.of.2.under.2, yeah we just started having sex like every day to every other day cause my cycles are irregular also some times shorter than others longer lol

@_ivyjayde oh that's good that's what we are doing It started to lighten up today so we tried today and then were trying for the rest of this week and next... and damn that had to suck true

@mama.of.2.under.2, once I stopped bleeding, we went back to trying right away. I always wait a few days after bleeding though because my periods (which my chemical pregnancy literally felt like a extra heavy period) make my vag have that raw sore feeling the first 2-3 days after. but we got pregnant the very next cycle, I missed my period and got my bfp right after.

My ob told me after a chemical we are fine to try immediately after

@_ivyjayde I had started bleeding 4 days after getting my faint bfp... I just stopped it been 5 days of bleeding we are trying to get a bfp by next month

I had a chemical the cycle before conceiving my toddler. I was barely 6 weeks when I miscarried. Had Bfp's and all then started bleeding a week after.

@turk I just stopped bleeding I bled for 5 days and now we are trying again we started this morning while I was bleeding lightly. And wow that's crazy hopefully it happens sooner for us. I pray we get that bfp soon

@mama.of.2.under.2 that is a pic of the chemical test u see the lines starting to go away but the digital was still picking up the pregnancy hormones.

@mama.of.2.under.2 only a few days and i guess i ovulated right after because when we got the positive for my hubby's b day the 28th we were so scared and confused on if this one would stick which it did and now I'm 2 weeks from my due date with our little boy coming!!!

@turk my level was at a 3 too and wow that's crazy... how long did you bleed for ???

@mama.of.2.under.2 they actually tried to down play in the hospital telling me i was never pregnant till i showed her the pregnancy test i took on Christmas (4 of them) and she could not explain how they were positive. I realized i was having a chemical when i wanted to test again a few days later it was like new years and the line started to disappear at the time i didn't really know what a chemical pregnancy was but that night i started bleeding and went to the er and thats was it all she wrote the blood test level was 3 and we just cried.

@turk oh damn so how long did you wait for them to realize you were having a chemical pregnancy???

@mama.of.2.under.2 it was weird i didn't know if we should be happy or not so we had to wait till 8 weeks to hear a heart beat.

@turk that took almost a whole month and same

Had a chemical Jan 3rd had a blood test done levels were so low we were devastated. Took another test Jan 28th super positive.

@tiffanyf thank you I'm going to need it

@mama.of.2.under.2, oh ok well good luck mama

@tiffanyf no I do it just was hard because I don't want to go through another miscarriage/chemical pregnancy. It's just hard.... we talked about it if it happens before I'm 23 then I'm happy I still want to get my tubes tied as well.

I don’t want to be rude but I thought you didn’t want a baby

@nicemmcha2015 yeah I've had 2 as well... and I do before I'm 25 atleast

@mama.of.2.under.2 if you're wanting another baby I wouldn't worry with the IUD. Those things hurt going in. I've had 2.

@nicemmcha2015 wow that's crazy and I have till the first of next month or I get my IUD put in my boyfriend is trying to put off me getting the IUD.

@mama.of.2.under.2 yeah. Had a chemical. Started bleeding April 6th. Ovulated the 23 rd and got pregnant. I'm 23 weeks now. No issues.

@nicemmcha2015 really this is giving me hope

@lii94 that's crazy I mean I have 2 kids I got pregnant with my son after having a miscarriage and I got pregnant with my daughter when my son was 9.5 months old. And my boyfriend and I were only together for almost a month. And then my daughter is 4 months and I found out I was pregnant last Monday had a miscarriage (chemical pregnancy) on Friday almost done bleeding and we just had sex today... and he said for the next two weeks we are going to be having sex.

2 weeks.

@mama.of.2.under.2 it can take up to a year ro get pregnant. It very normal for it to take 1y for someone who hasn't lost a baby or for someone who has 🤷🏻 idk why honestly it drove me insane since i got pregnant within 2m of trying the first time 🤦🏻

@lii94 oh wow it took that long how come????

Found out on what would have been my due date

9 months