Feeling depressed does it grlet better I feel like a failure of a wife I can't give him a baby
Hey darling.
I understand where you’re coming from. I have PCOS, and depression runs in my family. My husband and I have been trying for a long time, almost 4 years. I’ve felt like that many times and it does help to go to a doctor to get treated for depression.
But I also wanted to tell you that, this struggle doesn’t make you a bad wife. It doesn’t make you a failure. It’s just a bad card you’ve been dealt and you’ll get through it. Though I understand sometimes it can feel like it, your reproductive ability isn’t a reflection on your worth. You didn’t choose that diagnoses, you didn’t choose for the journey to be harder than it should be. You’re totally okay and you’re doing great. Don’t forget that. 💕
@cait6311, I have pcos so I understand the pressure you’ll be putting on yourself. You can still conceive though. Are your cycles regular? Do you ovulate on your own? There’s lots of vitamins etc that you can take to help with that along with losing weight if you need to and keeping an eye on your diet.
Definitely see if you can speak to someone regarding where your heads at. It's worth getting him checked as well hun, my friend suffers from PCOS and her ex partner also got tested when they were trying for a baby, turns out although he had 3 children previous he had a super low count and that was contributing to the fact she couldn't conceive. Their relationship fell a part and she met up with an ex and bam pregnant instantly! Don't give up hope and don't ever blame yourself ❤x
@cait6311, have you seen a fertility specialist? What are they doing to help?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
@haleypsutton thank you