Feeling depressed does it grlet better I feel like a failure of a wife I can't give him a baby
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Hey darling.
I understand where you’re coming from. I have PCOS, and depression runs in my family. My husband and I have been trying for a long time, almost 4 years. I’ve felt like that many times and it does help to go to a doctor to get treated for depression.
But I also wanted to tell you that, this struggle doesn’t make you a bad wife. It doesn’t make you a failure. It’s just a bad card you’ve been dealt and you’ll get through it. Though I understand sometimes it can feel like it, your reproductive ability isn’t a reflection on your worth. You didn’t choose that diagnoses, you didn’t choose for the journey to be harder than it should be. You’re totally okay and you’re doing great. Don’t forget that. 💕
@cait6311, I have pcos so I understand the pressure you’ll be putting on yourself. You can still conceive though. Are your cycles regular? Do you ovulate on your own? There’s lots of vitamins etc that you can take to help with that along with losing weight if you need to and keeping an eye on your diet.
Definitely see if you can speak to someone regarding where your heads at. It's worth getting him checked as well hun, my friend suffers from PCOS and her ex partner also got tested when they were trying for a baby, turns out although he had 3 children previous he had a super low count and that was contributing to the fact she couldn't conceive. Their relationship fell a part and she met up with an ex and bam pregnant instantly! Don't give up hope and don't ever blame yourself ❤x
@cait6311, have you seen a fertility specialist? What are they doing to help?
@haleypsutton thank you