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Anybody has an adopted child. I think I want to adopted a baby when my son gets older 🤔

Anybody has an adopted child. I think I want to adopted a baby when my son gets older 🤔

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queenteria

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@jessig2006 that's wonderful. I always wanted 2kids

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jessig2006

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We are starting the adoption process after this baby is born. We are looking at both flat out adoption and fostering to adopt. I am very excited to start that journey!

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How Can I Be Sure About Adoption?

Being completely honest i think about adoption all thw time. im not 100% sure on adoption but im just tired of being his primary care giver its alot of stress on me not sleeping and everything my bf is ok with adoption and im open to it but I havent even discussed it with my family noone would try stop it though, it would hurt my parents and theyd be disappointed but theyd respect my decision. Im torn on what to do cause i want a better life for him but like how can one be 100% sure before you do it? like what if i put him up for adoption and i regret it and then the decision is irreversible legally i have no righst. But the only wsy to know is to go through with it! I don't know anyone whos given a kid up for adoption so i have noone to really speak to about it whos been through it. My ideal situation would be like if i could see him like once a week i still want to be in his life but as you said it wouldn't be that often even with an open adoption like its all or nothing i care for him everyday or im barely a part of his life i wish there was an option where i could see him like a couple times a month but theres not so idk what to do..