Should I Stay or Leave After His Confusing Confession?
Ok...im kinda stressed out over this. Met a guy named Micah on bumble last month we hit it off but after about 3 weeks of talking he got into a relationship with another girl. He quickly broke it off too cuz of her trying to control him. So he came back to me of course and we picked up where we ended. Cuz I'm a really understanding and forgiving person. But he asked me and my daughter out to dinner Saturday night. Pays for both us, acts like a total dad to her, by the end of it he's holding hands with her. Talking about future dates ect...it went great. He's always said I've treated him so good. He has been married and divorced. He also is has told me he doesn't hook up or have one night stand. So no sex till there is some type of emotional connection. So here comes the confusing part. He told me it's hard for him to get into a relationship cuz of his divorce. Understandable. I told him I'm not going to build him up again for him to leave me again. But here's what he said next and has me so mixed up. He stated he is single. Had needs. And hasn't had sex in over half a year so he will probably be hooking up with somebody that's not me. He told me I probably wouldn't even know when it happens and he doesn't want to loose me or want me to hate him. I'm not even sure how to process this all. Do I leave now or what??lol #myfirstpost
Penelope ·
Yes, run! He’s admitting that he interested in you, but is still going to go find someone else to sleep with? Nope.
brii·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@penelope127 right?
J·
That is to strange. Not to mention that he's blaming his issues on his ex. Don't get me wrong I know that especially as a girl sometimes it's hard to let go of what's happened to us in the past but at some point you've got to move on and take responsibility for your own actions. I'd run also. What he told you totally contradicts itself. No sex til there's an emotional connection but I'm gonna hook up with someone because I need to get my rocks off... What.
Bree·
Мама дочки (3 года)
Dip out! Dip out! That’s all sorts of confusing😂
Keeosha Fennell ·
Run he’s full of shit he wants his cake and eat it too
K·
Run FAST!!! Run and never look back.
Georgina·
He knows ur a good person so wants to have you as a safety net & still fuck around
Georgina·
Plus I see your daughter is only 2 & you hardly know this guy. I wouldn’t be letting men around my kid, especially playing daddy this soon. They shouldn’t meet till you’ve gotten to know the man better and feel his safe to be around
brii·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@georgina-ox I know I made a mistake. Thought nothing of it cuz I've known him for a while. Lesson learned and l won't do it again
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
In short, he wants you on the back burner while he tries out some other women. Hard pass. Don't settle. And really consider not introducing your child to your dates until you're certain of their character and their potential to stay in her life. That's confusing to a child to meet different people like that.
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Linden·
Yeah.....like yesterday. Don't waste ANY more time on this fool! Why can't you guys have sex until there's an "emotional connection" but he can fuck randos in the meantime??? THAT makes a WHOLE lotta damn sense! He sounds like a douche.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (25 нед.)
i wouldn't be bringing him around your kid so soon. You don't know him.
Pork Chop ·
So did you dump this guy???