I just got a called back from doctor I had a chemical pregnancy. So now I have to wait till my boyfriend gets home…

It will be soon

@lawsondeaja awe thank you

@lawsondeaja yeah I'm good... I've grieved and everything just trying to get my boyfriend to realize there is no hope for baby chewie.... that's it's a gone

Im always here if u need to talk

Awww poor baby are u ok

@lawsondeaja not real, or viable

What do chemical pregnancy mean?

@lawsondeaja I've had 3 miscarriages and 1 chemical pregnancy... to me that's a lot.. I may have 2 kids but go through the 2 weeks wait after ovulation to see if that test is positive or negative and the to get a faint positive for it to not stick I just don't think I can't

I felt like u like everytime i. Tryed to get pregnant or think im pregnant my period comes on but im 16 weeks pregnant now

So true

@lawsondeaja I just don't think I can go through all the disappointments of miscarriages and chemical pregnancies.. I still have health issues I need to take care of

Girl no dont do that kerp trying

@lawsondeaja I honestly don't think I will... I think I'm just going to get my IUD put back in and then when I turn 21 get my tubes tied

No dont keep trying

@lawsondeaja yeah we could just I gave him till my 21st birthday... if I'm not pregnant by then I'm getting my tubes tied..

Can u always try again

@lawsondeaja we have 2 already he just wants that boy that carries his name, and blood.... but he said if it another girl he will love her so much

God gping to bless u with one

@lawsondeaja it's okay I've grieved already I just don't think my boyfriend has come to terms with it he keeps rubbing my tummy and kissing my belly

Sorry to hear that

@modom16 yeah it was and thanks and see I've always wants for kids but with all that's going on and my help I can honestly only have 1 more and I want to get my last one out of the way and get my tubes tied I almost died giving birth to both of my kids

@mama.of.2.under.2, that’s really tough, I’m sorry for all of your losses. Is there a reason you want to get pregnant by your 21st? To me it seems like a break from all of it could be helpful, it really does sound very stressful.

@penelope127 I know it is

@modom16 I do later on in life but I just can't got through another miscarriage... I've have 3 miscarriages all after 10 weeks and this is my first chemical. He wants a big family I told him I am willing to have another kid but I better be knocked up before my 21st birthday otherwise I'm getting my tubes tied. I know that but he doesn't he feels as though all the arguing and stressing between us will have cause this.

@mama.of.2.under.2, it is, but it’s ok to grieve.

Do you want another baby? Are y’all not on the same page? Sorry, I’m confused about the tube tying thing. Your young with young babies so there is still plenty of time to have a big family if that’s what you want. Miscarriages are really hard but it’s no ones fault and no one should feel the blame. Maybe plan something fun to go do as a family.

@penelope127 yeah I know but I don't like to see him cry.. its heart breaking

You just have to be straight and tell him when you see him. It’s hard, but he should know.