I just got a called back from doctor I had a chemical pregnancy. So now I have to wait till my boyfriend gets home (early in the morning) and break the news to him. How do you break something like this to your boyfriend that wants a big family. That he won't blame himself and hate himself. I just can't bare to break his heart. He really want this, I told him if we do have another kid by my 21st birthday I will put off getting my tubes tied. I've talked to my doctor about doing it.
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@lawsondeaja yeah I'm good... I've grieved and everything just trying to get my boyfriend to realize there is no hope for baby chewie.... that's it's a gone
@lawsondeaja I've had 3 miscarriages and 1 chemical pregnancy... to me that's a lot.. I may have 2 kids but go through the 2 weeks wait after ovulation to see if that test is positive or negative and the to get a faint positive for it to not stick I just don't think I can't
I felt like u like everytime i. Tryed to get pregnant or think im pregnant my period comes on but im 16 weeks pregnant now
@lawsondeaja I just don't think I can go through all the disappointments of miscarriages and chemical pregnancies.. I still have health issues I need to take care of
@lawsondeaja I honestly don't think I will... I think I'm just going to get my IUD put back in and then when I turn 21 get my tubes tied
@lawsondeaja yeah we could just I gave him till my 21st birthday... if I'm not pregnant by then I'm getting my tubes tied..
@lawsondeaja we have 2 already he just wants that boy that carries his name, and blood.... but he said if it another girl he will love her so much
@lawsondeaja it's okay I've grieved already I just don't think my boyfriend has come to terms with it he keeps rubbing my tummy and kissing my belly
@modom16 yeah it was and thanks and see I've always wants for kids but with all that's going on and my help I can honestly only have 1 more and I want to get my last one out of the way and get my tubes tied I almost died giving birth to both of my kids
@mama.of.2.under.2, that’s really tough, I’m sorry for all of your losses. Is there a reason you want to get pregnant by your 21st? To me it seems like a break from all of it could be helpful, it really does sound very stressful.
@modom16 I do later on in life but I just can't got through another miscarriage... I've have 3 miscarriages all after 10 weeks and this is my first chemical. He wants a big family I told him I am willing to have another kid but I better be knocked up before my 21st birthday otherwise I'm getting my tubes tied. I know that but he doesn't he feels as though all the arguing and stressing between us will have cause this.
Do you want another baby? Are y’all not on the same page? Sorry, I’m confused about the tube tying thing. Your young with young babies so there is still plenty of time to have a big family if that’s what you want. Miscarriages are really hard but it’s no ones fault and no one should feel the blame. Maybe plan something fun to go do as a family.
@penelope127 yeah I know but I don't like to see him cry.. its heart breaking
You just have to be straight and tell him when you see him. It’s hard, but he should know.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does the doctor need consent from both parents to do a circumcision or just one? I don't want my boyfriend and his mother to try and do this behind my back while I'm all groggy
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .
It will be soon