I just got a called back from doctor I had a chemical pregnancy. So now I have to wait till my…
I just got a called back from doctor I had a chemical pregnancy. So now I have to wait till my boyfriend gets home (early in the morning) and break the news to him. How do you break something like this to your boyfriend that wants a big family. That he won't blame himself and hate himself. I just can't bare to break his heart. He really want this, I told him if we do have another kid by my 21st birthday I will put off getting my tubes tied. I've talked to my doctor about doing it.
Penelope ·
You just have to be straight and tell him when you see him. It’s hard, but he should know.
Deliaha Day·
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@penelope127 yeah I know but I don't like to see him cry.. its heart breaking
Morgan ·
Do you want another baby? Are y’all not on the same page? Sorry, I’m confused about the tube tying thing. Your young with young babies so there is still plenty of time to have a big family if that’s what you want. Miscarriages are really hard but it’s no ones fault and no one should feel the blame. Maybe plan something fun to go do as a family.
Penelope ·
@mama.of.2.under.2, it is, but it’s ok to grieve.
Deliaha Day·
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@modom16 I do later on in life but I just can't got through another miscarriage... I've have 3 miscarriages all after 10 weeks and this is my first chemical. He wants a big family I told him I am willing to have another kid but I better be knocked up before my 21st birthday otherwise I'm getting my tubes tied. I know that but he doesn't he feels as though all the arguing and stressing between us will have cause this.
Deliaha Day·
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@penelope127 I know it is
Morgan ·
@mama.of.2.under.2, that’s really tough, I’m sorry for all of your losses. Is there a reason you want to get pregnant by your 21st? To me it seems like a break from all of it could be helpful, it really does sound very stressful.
Deliaha Day·
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@modom16 yeah it was and thanks and see I've always wants for kids but with all that's going on and my help I can honestly only have 1 more and I want to get my last one out of the way and get my tubes tied I almost died giving birth to both of my kids
Deaja·
Sorry to hear that
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lawsondeaja it's okay I've grieved already I just don't think my boyfriend has come to terms with it he keeps rubbing my tummy and kissing my belly
Deaja·
God gping to bless u with one
Deliaha Day·
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@lawsondeaja we have 2 already he just wants that boy that carries his name, and blood.... but he said if it another girl he will love her so much
Deaja·
Can u always try again
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lawsondeaja yeah we could just I gave him till my 21st birthday... if I'm not pregnant by then I'm getting my tubes tied..
Deaja·
No dont keep trying
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lawsondeaja I honestly don't think I will... I think I'm just going to get my IUD put back in and then when I turn 21 get my tubes tied
Deaja·
Girl no dont do that kerp trying
Deliaha Day·
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@lawsondeaja I just don't think I can go through all the disappointments of miscarriages and chemical pregnancies.. I still have health issues I need to take care of
Deaja·
So true
Deaja·
I felt like u like everytime i. Tryed to get pregnant or think im pregnant my period comes on but im 16 weeks pregnant now
Deliaha Day·
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@lawsondeaja I've had 3 miscarriages and 1 chemical pregnancy... to me that's a lot.. I may have 2 kids but go through the 2 weeks wait after ovulation to see if that test is positive or negative and the to get a faint positive for it to not stick I just don't think I can't
Deaja·
What do chemical pregnancy mean?
Deliaha Day·
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@lawsondeaja not real, or viable
Deaja·
Awww poor baby are u ok
Deaja·
Im always here if u need to talk
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lawsondeaja yeah I'm good... I've grieved and everything just trying to get my boyfriend to realize there is no hope for baby chewie.... that's it's a gone
Deliaha Day·
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@lawsondeaja awe thank you
Deaja·
It will be soon