So originally, me and my man planned that we wanted our kids 3-5 years apart . Tonight he called me…

I originally wanted my kids spaced out, but it took too long to get them. Now, I'm happy they are close in age. They play together well and it makes family outings better because they are interested in roughly the same things.

@momof3qtpies, yeah he said that he’d rather not be sending a kid off to school then starting all over . But my pregnancy was so high risk I’m scared my next will be too and I’ll be chasing after a toddler

It’s hard having them close together because you are chasing a toddler while pregnant but it is so worth it. We had everything for this baby and they will grow out of things close together like bottles and diapers which will be nice. I would hate to start over years later honestly.

@briannalynn547 I was high risk with my daughter and w9th my son. There about a year apart. It's easier to have them close together. But at times it can be hard. Just take it one step at a time

I wanted to space my kids out too by like 2 years but I’m so happy that we’re doing it now instead because they’ll get to grow up together and be best friends (when they aren’t fighting)

@briannalynn547 I had a 1 year old while pregnant with twins and several reasons why it was high risk and it was not bad. Do you have any help?

@momof3qtpies, loads of help . But I’m the kind of person who doesn’t like asking for it . But I always have people who are willing to help. And my man is amazing

Mine are 4.5, 2.5, and 4 months. I honestly found the two year gap harder than the 2.5 year gap. My oldest had a hard time adjusting which made the transition from 1-2 more difficult. By the time my 4 month old arrived my second was old enough to understand a little bit better and not so much "a baby" like I felt my first was when my second came. I love how close they are together but it definitely made the first few months tougher.

@briannalynn547 I was the same way...until the twins came. Handed off babies left and right. 🤣 You get a baby, and you get a baby, you get a baby. Felt like Oprah.

@momof3qtpies, omg 😂😭🤦🏻‍♀️