Is it wrong or too much of me to ask baby’s father to NOT smoke/be under the influence while watching our daughter?
I’m not, by all means, asking him to stop altogether. I’m just asking him to postpone it until our daughter has someone else capable of watching her.
Not at all. Kids safety first. Would he let other people watch her under the influence? You have to be your child’s biggest advocate. Good luck, I’m sure you’ll find a good way to go about it.