@countrymusic_mama, thank you!

The hospital I had greyson at told me to write a list of people I did or didnt want in and times that people could come. They said they would be the bad guys and turn people away if i didnt want visitors. Something to talk to them about at least

I'm feeling the same way and I think you just have to put your foot down and say no but if for some reason you don't feel that will work then you can tell the nurses and hospitals you do not want any visitors! It's what you want and my thing also is taking pictures of my baby, I don't want anyone to at all!

I just want to be selfish... and I dont care what family or friends think. This is our rainbow, we have been waiting 4 years for this moment, since our 1st one passed during delivery. I DESERVE TO BE SELFISH. just hubby in the delivery room. Whoever wants to see baby can do so by going to our house in 3 months.

I wrote this and shared it with all family and friends....
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We also posted it to social media letting them all know we won't be telling them we are in labor, progression, or immediately after birth. Our estimate (though we didn't tell them) is we won't tell anyone until about 4-6 hours after his birth.

We go in for a natural induction at 8pm tonight (literally just found out an hour ago it is time) and so we are relaxing today and telling no one.

Oh girl im slow i dont even wount my mother n law there

@lawsondeaja mil means mother in law

What is a mil

Just my husband n my mom going to be there

For me I asked that everyone showered before coming up to see me because most of them were smokers and that they used santizer and that they did not kiss my kids at any time and if they smelled of smoke they weren't allowed near my babies

I’d rather them come to the hospital than at home ugh @ home I feel like I had more anxiety when visitors would come

No one is going to know I'm even in labor, except my MIL and that's only because she lives with us. No one is going to visit us in the hospital unless we are in there for an extended period of time. Our baby is brand new and we are just getting to see her, we don't want to share her that early. After we get out we will introduce her to everyone in little groups or they can call to come see us. But no one in the hospital.

The first day i have my baby i dont wount no vistors

@mikaylar2378, That’s not an unreasonable request. I think most people will understand so don’t stress yourself out. Just play it by ear. See how you’re feeling and then invite people.

@mikaylar2378 right

The only visitor I had at the hospital was my mom and she only stayed for about 30 mins or so. I was exhausted, in pain, emotional and didn’t want many visitors.

@121909pss, I really hope it doesn’t have to come to me making others mad, especially family. But if no one wants to follow my rules they can leave. It won’t hurt my feelings. My baby, my rules. All I ask is no kissing on his face or hands! You’d think, common sense, don’t kiss a baby that’s not your own but you just never know with people nowadays.

Oh they will take your voice extremely serious once you put your foot up someone's ass if they don't respect you and your babies wishes