@mckenna.mccue22, he’s super special if he doesn’t understand the simple concept of stress and anxiety raise BP and that you can end up hospitalized if it gets too high.
@mckenna.mccue22, take it away from him beautiful. Don’t give him that power. I would also honestly have a conversation with him about it. Or hell I will if you want lol. He needs to understand he’s impacting your health.
Anytime love bug. I’ve been doing this my whole life and I’ve lived a pretty tough one during it. So I’m always good for some solid advice and an ear when you need one.
@ttcmomma719, ok thank you so much. Yea i have been trying to avoid responding and hanging out at my moms to stay calm during the day. I will definitely try your advice and also the less sodium diet. Thank you so much for responding 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Girl take a breather. I’m in a similar boat but you need to take yourself out of that mentality. Not saying leave but saying when shit starts to get moody and anger, replace your thoughts. As hard as it sounds agree to his bullshit and take yourself mentally else where. We always say it, “no man is worth you’re own child!” And this shows no truer. Your health is keeping that peanut alive. When he starts getting all shitty mentally place yourself in a happy place. I’ve perfected the art of saying “you’re right!” When he isn’t. Just to avoid arguments. It’s not easy to do because I’m a raging bitch. But it’s better for my metal stability. And in this situation no matter his bs. You have to learn to displace his bullshit to better your own.
@ttcmomma719, ok thank you. Yea it’s hard because my bf lives with me and he has mood swings and has been verbally and mentally abusing me all day so I’m stressed from him and then worry cause if raises my bp
You’re right on that edge where we just preach low to no sodium, and hydrate the crap out of yourself. Any anxiety or stress with induce higher BP as well as I’m sure you’re aware.
@ttcmomma719, thank you ! I keep going into the doc and l&d worried every time it’s high but they test me and send me home eventually. I had preeclampsia with my son so that’s why i worry