How do you tell your sister that you're tired of watching her kids and parenting them for her!? I…

You simply speak up and put a stop to everyones bullshit...

I would say im

Not cooking for youe kids

Cleaning after your kids

And I sure as hell am not homeschooling them

Either !!

I homeschool my 4 (well 3 cause one is 1.5 lol)

But that on its own is so much work.

Also say shw has to find someone to watch her kids when she goes out ... your not a babysitter !?

Its not rude.

You also tell your husband to take you out instead of going with them.

Tell her you have your hands full with your own kids and she needs to start taking care of her kids

And your bf shouldn't be leaving you with the kids and her kids so they can take a break that just not fair... Either you all go together or don't go all at

You are superwoman. How you do that and manage your own kids? I'm tired with one little 3 month old! I agree with the above posters. They think you are happy with that. You gotta end that quick and not be afraid of them being upset. They will get over it. People are too selfish nowadays. As for BD, time with you and him as said before is the trick rather than getting pissed at him. Sugar always works better and you a hot mama so I'm sure he'll be good with it!

@mokai08 I manage My own kids because both of My Daughters are temporarily in Texas with their Dad (My Ex-Husband) and My Son goes to Preschool but I still make as much time for Him as I can!! As Far as My Sister's Kids she works during the day and doesn't want to pay a babysitter so I do it for her but being Pregnant and her kids being a handful, it's all starting to become too much for me!! I'm not used to rambunctious crazy kids..My Kids are calm and collected which is a MAJOR blessing!! As far as Y'all thinking I'm happy living this way..haha think again..why would I post this if I'm happy living this way!? I wanted suggestions on how I can change this and talk to My Husband about how I feel about it all! Never once do I recall mentioning that I'm pissed at him. I don't get all that mad easily..it takes alot to piss me off! I said I'm tired!! I have alot on My plate plus carrying a baby is hardwork in itself!! And I try to turn on the Charm and it definitely works until I say something he doesn't want to hear then he gets upset so I'm trying my best to get this out to all of them!!

@bulmabreigh3 I'm trying to step up but I hate arguing and I feel that's exactly what's going to happen if I say something. My Husband should be understanding of everything and how I feel but it Sparks conflict between us as well. But I'm definitely trying to talk to him slowly about it!!

No no, we mean't (they: your sister and them) think you're happy with it. We don't. And no you never said you were pissed. I just said using sugar would be good. Did not mean to imply that, momma. Get that you are tired for sure. Was just trying to help you out as you asked. No implications. Totally get you.

@roses702 I don't think she knows how to be a Parent honestly!! She said the other night she doesn't like her kids which is so sad!! I try to show them love and the affection and attention they need but like you said My Kids definitely need it too!! My Daughters are with their Dad in Texas temporarily and I'm definitely fighting him for full custody because this joint crap is just not working for me! So Yes My Kids will come first! I always put them first! If My Son has an activity or something he's put first! I just can't handle the stress of playing Mom to her Kids because she doesn't want to do it and being Mom to My own! Her kids are just as needy but so bossy and disrespectful! My Kids are the opposite which is why hers are starting to get on my nerves. I don't feel like I should have to spend My spare time raising her Kids! I already told her she needs to stay home but her BD starts complaining how he needs her help at work! As far as My Husband..he's understanding to an extent! But the Kids get on his nerves too because when he's home they demand him too!! I'm trying to tell him we need to put a stop to this and raise our own family!!

@mokai08 I completely understand and Yes they do because I don't speak my mind very often but when I do they all start tripping. My Husband trips when they're around us but not when it's just Us like when we talk before bed! I will try again today to talk to him!!

@mamachey I wouldn't homeschool them if I knew they wouldn't get in trouble for not having their kids in school! They won't put them in public school! I told her just the other night that she either needs to stay home or put them in school. I don't mind watching the baby..her and I are pretty chill together!! It's the school age kids that gives me the most trouble. They don't stay focus, never listen and always complain! Plus their 12 year old daughter doesn't know how to read which I know is neglect but I dont have the patience to teach her how to read on top of everything else. She's in 6th grade but reads at a 2nd grade level. I told My Sister she needs to hold her kids back because they don't have the knowledge of their grade levels. I can't sit and read her schoolwork everyday..that's her Mom's job! I get frustrated because she's 12 and I don't understand how My 3 year old can read and she can't! And everything else I do because My Sister is too lazy to do it herself and these kids can't eat pizza and fast food everyday, that's unhealthy and I want them to have a clean home but I'm just so tired of living her life for her when she should be doing it!

@al_lopezzzz2718, honestly thats not your problem and your enabling her ... and making the problem worse .

What ever happens because she chooses not to act likw a parent is deserved and needed to assure she follows the rules yea its unfortunate but thats life

As for reading let me start my morning and ill send you some stuff since i know youll likely continue 😂

For reading frequency is key let her read simple

Books daily for 30 mins minimum