Struggling with everything atm tbh. 😔 Me and my partner are going through a really rough patch in our relationship and he hasnt had a job for 2 and a half months now so money is so tight. We havent got any of the stuff we need yet for our 2nd baby and he just keeps letting me down time and time again. Ive got nerve damage from my epidurals/spinal and have so much pain everyday from it. I work 7-5/6 4 days a week but been calling in sick almost every week lately because it just too much for me. I have ocd and struggling with depression. I was on anti-depressants before i got pregnant but stopped taking them when i knew i was pregnant. Also my mum has a serious heart condition and looking like shes going to need a heart transplant soon.
I feel like i barely play with my daughter anymore and the thought od me looking after her on my own worries me coz i feel like i cant cope, emotionally or physcially. I make an effort to make sure we go out and do stuff everyday i have a day off but when were home i feel like i hardly do anything with her and struggle with ideas of what activities to do inside.
My anxiety is just really high atm, i duno what the point waw in writing this but i have no one to talk too and just needed to vent my feelings..😒😒😑
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Sounds so difficult hun. Not having the support from your partner seems like a huge factor. Remember you're 32 weeks pregnant, spending time with your baby is enough for them, they don't need elaborate activities and planned days out. Just sit and pretend to listen to thier play and they're more than happy. I didn't even realise how little I played with my first near my end of pregnancy until after I had baby and suddenly the over bearing weight is lifted and you can think straight again. You can move and actually do things with your first. The hormones inside of pregnancy are over whelming, let alone how much other stuff you have on your plate, I don't think anyone going through that much could go through it without anxiety. Talk to someone, anyone, for some help, to vent, to release.
I’m sorry. I’m struggling too. I don’t have a house. Idk if me and my so are gonna work through it or what my son is 2....my son has been staying with so family cause that’s the best place for him. It’s really hard. I don’t mean to freak you out even more I just want you to know I feel the same 😢
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
AM I THE ONLY ONE
Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hun take some time out for you. Look into benefits and speak with your midwife. Sometimes Everything can seem like there’s no way out but trust me everything works out in the end. Stay strong but take care of yourself xx