Ladies what does it mean if your man swear he loves you .. your his one and only he don’t want no one else .. but you look in his phone and he’s messaging other girls and heartin girls pics .. but when he gets caught he’s like “I’m sorry I’m sorry” I’m trying to change for you “bear with me” but he keep doing the same thing?? Is he trying to change or what? Does it take men a little longer then girls??
It means he’s taking the piss & telling you what you want to hear. As I’ve said to my oh before actions speak louder than words
Sounds like a player move. Be careful your heart may be broken sooner then you might expect. Hes not in love with you if he's doing all that.
where is he trying to change when he just keeps doing it? if he can't mind his own on social media then that's the problem. he doesn't HAVE to talk to other women. like a normal human, he thinks it through and decides to do this.
Been here. 😪
Babe, if he doesn’t make active steps that can prove he’s changing then he isn’t. He’s just finding ways to hide it from you better.
Often times we want to believe people change for us or even for themselves but past 25 it usually takes a traumatic experience for anything to drastically change a mind from its current reasoning.
People hardly change from who they are.
Stand your ground momma. Don’t tolerate it and if need be, start those steps for being the first to walk away.
He will either change to have you and the kids or realize he had it good much too late.
It might be time to test him on his true loyalty and see what he values more -you and the family or random chicks.
If he was trying to change sounds like he would just delete the social media all together.
@quamaradesiree I absolutely agree. But he doesn't really seem to be making any effort, despite what he's saying. If he wanted to change, he'd be making some positive progress, but he's actively seeking out other women to flirt with. He's putting effort into doing the opposite of what he's saying. Sorry hun.
Y’all are right . It’s just I love him so much I believe people change ya know? Every man isn’t prefect everyone is a work in progress 😭
If you're his "one and only" he wouldn't be looking for other girls to flirt with. I couldn't trust anything he said, especially if this is repeated behavior. No trust is an absolute dealbreaker. I'd move on to a man whose actions align with his words.
That’s cheating and as a mother, I don’t have time for no mans game. I’d leave too.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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You’re too good to put up with that and feel like “just another one”
Even if you’re the “main one” there shouldn’t be others
And there are better men out there
Been there, done that.