Ugh so sad.. my best friend had a misscarige at 3weeks. Idk what to do or how to help her. She puts on a happy face etc but in her eyes you can tell she's gone. I want to be here for her but I have no idea how. I feel like being around her and her family at this time is hardest on me. Because I'm still pregnent and there always all over my belly, idk I just feel weird about the whole thing. I also feel guilty that I still have my baby and she doesn't have hers. :/ she's only 17 and I don't want her to do anything stupid. Her mom kept saying she wanted them to put her baby back and she was asking me why they wouldnt put it back. Please keep her and her family in your prayers!!
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@day1401 Yea. I'll ask her when she gets out of placement.
I’m confused, there’s a huge difference between 3 weeks and 4-5 months.
You said this was your best friend?.
@newlyironman I really don't know. I think she was just going into her second trimester.
There's a huge time difference between 3 weeks and 4-5 months
@penelope127 She planned for this baby and yes she really wanted to have a baby. She was so excited especially when she started showing a little more. My heart breaks for her...
@kittycupcake, it’s a horrible thing to happen. I’ve been through it myself. Just be there for her.
Does she want a baby at 17, or is this an eye opener for her?
@penelope127 your right sorry about that I've kinda been in shock. She was probably 4 or 5months then. I'm not really sure. She's in placement rn until the 28th.
If they are testing, they will tell her for sure how far along she was.
At 3 weeks if she got a positive, and then got her period, most people don’t even realize they were pregnant because it just looks like period, maybe a few extra clots. That’s called a chemical.
So for her to see sac she’s further than 3 weeks.
@kittycupcake, she was further than 3 weeks to see all that. 3 weeks it’s nothing more than a microscopic cell.
She was more then 3weeks then, emotional support from a distance worked for me when I miscarried I didn’t really wanna be around others I wanted to grieve in peace
@newlyironman she did and her mom even made her wait an extra week before she went to the hospital to get tested.
@penelope127 Because the baby came out. Well it wasn't fully formed but it was still attached to the sac. But she was bleeding and leaking too much fluids. They don't know why it died yet there duing research on it rn.
Just be there for her and give support. Encourage her that she will go on to have healthy babies in the near future. Sorry for her loss.
How does she know it’s a miscarriage at 3 weeks?
So she hadn't missed her period yet?
If there was a sac that puts her in the first Trimester. That goes away and the placenta takes over in the second trimester.