I may be ghetto and loud and I yell a lot but i spoil my kids they are well taken care of I dont allow them to sit on anyone's lap even if its my brothers or whatever only her papa and grandma I may spank my 5 year old sometimes not alot only when shes an ass but I don't ever put my kid in danger they only are watched by my mom or my husbands mom or my sisters not even my brothers or my husbands son is allowed I have never beat my kids or done them any harm moms be careful who you let around your kids children of single moms are like 50x more likely to be sexually abused or physically abused this happened in my home town the mom was with him a year decided to leave him over night with her 3 year old autistic son this is what happened