Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here...…

@babybirdboss-mom if you feel he's cheating that he probably is normally when you feel like something's going to happen it's happening

Well I can say I have done this :( and I left him .... it showed me he can’t be trusted and is willling to so quickly talk to whoever.... it shows me lack of commitment

Absolutely he is the loser in the story such a stupid behavior trust me regrets will hunt him , and what Happened to you can happen to anyone to be honest I don’t trust men .

When I sad iam sorry I meant during the pregnancy this is not supposed to happen to anyone cuz the pregnancy it self is emotionally hard to go threw you are strong 💪 god bless you and your little angels .

@lorena.lazizi no need to feel sorry doll, I don't want pity lol... honestly I'm to the point I just wanna laugh in his face and show him what he could of had, he'll I cooked, cleaned washed his clothes, waited on him hand and foot, and honestly gave him the most precious thing in life that anyone could ever give someone, and him wanting to throw it all away, over nothing... I'm just gonna turn my cheek, smile, take care of my babies, all 3 of them, and live a happy life with my babies... he will miss us one day when his little side pieces doesn't work out, haha and it will be to late.

Ohhh honey feel so sorry to read this , men are stupid and you deserve someone who treat you right he is an asshole

It’s definitely time to either confront him or just leave. You deserve better

@isaiah4319 he has been telling me he wanted a baby, and when I found out I was pregnant he was excited, then I started feeling like he was cheating, and he started pushing me away, not wanting anything to do with me nor the babies.... I just don't think he wants this anymore... which is fine, I already told him I'm not gonna beg him to stay, if he wants to leave, then he can... I'm not gonna be the one that gets hurt anymore... he just laughed....

@isaiah4319 thank you doll!

@isaiah4319 he is talking about meeting up with this girl tomorrow lol.... (me) I swear I wish I had the gas, I'd go and just walk out hahaha I honestly am just so cried out, I'm just like a depressed log. With no tears left... it's to the point the laughter starts to come out... bc he texted me saying I love you... blah blah...

@isaiah4319 yeah! That's what he said about the whole flirting with my best friend...

It's hard for me to tell any more I feel like I have the only faithful man left on this earth 😂 everyone is always getting cheated on or done wrong my man isn't perfect ive had my doubts about him but I've never found proof that he's wanting to cheat so why even bother looking any more 🤷‍♀

@lacysmith0217 thank you for understanding if you need to talk am here for for u. Is he you're girls daddy

@unicorns_ your fine

@lacysmith0217 am sorry if my comment sounded rude

@lacysmith0217 I Understand That Must Be hard to trust

@deeshaylove yea, and thank you! But he doesn't realize that...

@lacysmith0217, it’s okay sweetie! I really do understand depression is real. It is not easy. The pregnancy makes it no better with all the hormones and stuff. I was crying all the time while I was pregnant and now I’m 3weeks pp and still really sensitive. I could not imagine depression added to that. I just think you should take it a day at a time , try to do that for yourself and kids. Take it a day at a time with rebuilding and rejuvenating yourself. You won’t wake up tomorrow un-depressed but anything you can do to help you is a start. No matter what he should be able to be there for you guys aren’t perfect but he needs to understand how much you really need him right now.

@unicorns_ well see my last relationship I was in for 2 years he cheated 14 times, and it messed me up super bad! It still bothers me and I try not to think that Carl would do that to me, but it just been to persistent now.... same gut feeling.... and I just can't do it anymore....

I agree with @unicorns_

@reseelove5 well I have done it by myself with both of my others, so the 3rd one I can do as well..

@babybirdboss-mom if you feel he's cheating that he probably is normally when you feel like something's going to happen it's happening

@babybirdboss-mom this isn't the first female.... he tried to flirt with my best friend

@deeshaylove thanks so much!! I struggle with really bad depression already! Like I literally cry everyday at least 2 times... and he blows it off....

@lacysmith0217, I have been there in the long run it’s not worth your health or your time being depressed over a man ... it’s so hard sometimes when you love them so much but in the end it’s slowly killing who you are and your happiness not mention it’s hard to be happy mom when your feeling low about a guy .... it takes time to gain your strength but now I am not afraid to be alone I will not sacrifice my happiness or my kids happiness... stay strong 💪

@lacysmith0217 he maybe playing you then he might just be trying to see what all you'll say threw the fake profile

Being 24 weeks pregnant it just sucks that you are dealing with this right now. Leaving him will make your depression worse right now before it gets better. Not saying it is the wrong thing , just totally being realistic , I’m sure you care about him. You made a fake fb account just to catch him up. If he is willing to be untrue for a random person he does not know on Facebook that is very concerning because he isn’t trust worthy. What can your relationship stand on without it? Adding a child to that does not really help. I can’t tell you what to do but I hope whatever you do decide really makes you happy in the end sweetie.

@reseelove5 lol but what he doesn't understand is that it's to late to realize that now, I'm 6 months pregnant.

@babybirdboss-mom well he asked me if I made a fake profile I said no...

I would confront him bout it

@mandieginton I have not one time thought about talking to another man! And I sit here depressed really bad over him..... but I think I just need to be done... I don't want to get hurt any more.

Well I can say I have done this :( and I left him .... it showed me he can’t be trusted and is willling to so quickly talk to whoever.... it shows me lack of commitment