My man is very understanding but not because he knows what I’m going through but because he has enough empathy to not like seeing me in pain. He does what he can to be supportive. I often feel worse for being so uncomfortable and drawing attention to it.

My father is another way, believing I am stronger then sometimes I really am.

I think it depends on the man. Some are old fashioned and lack the ability to find empathy for many reasons including their own incapability to handle the situation with care or because they can’t do anything about it.

You know your guy best, so I’d really just be open with him and if he reacts defensively than he’s probably scared, if not then I think there might be a bit of disrespect in the relationship or hidden resentment somewhere.

How are you behaving in the relationship though. Try to look at things from everyone's side.