This is embarrassing but anyone else’s hubby less and less wanting to be intimate sexually as the pregnancy progressed.
I feel less and less attractive because of this and he’s swears it’s not me. :(
Idk what to do.
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With our son, my husband didn't mind. We had sex often. This time around we basically just don't have sex. The belly just makes it awkward for both of us. So I can definitely relate.
Oh man. 💔 my guy and I have been through all of this and then some. I kept hearing “people don’t change” but with him, I kept holding on to my worth and either he saw it or he didn’t.
Honestly it’s normal for us to be insecure but it’s also normal for us to assume as well.
Men are scared and don’t show it. If you bottled all that up without being honest, constantly lying to yourself it would make you do crazy things too.
I’m not saying give him the benefit of the doubt but I would say honesty has always been the best policy between me and my guy. What he thinks I don’t know, he knows now that I always have. Now he gets to be reminded that despite his hurtful actions, I never stopped loving him and never truly wanted to do him wrong.
You know him better than anyone else. If you’re heart tells you he’s just put off by it then show him you’re not afraid to be intimate. If that doesn’t work, then give him space. He will come back. He wouldn’t stick around for you or the kid if at some level he didn’t love you or fancy that smokin hot bod.
Stay confident boo. 💞 sexy comes from within.
He rubs my belly still cuddles and all of that just no compliments and barely and sex
@vera.mackey11712, texting about it is not ok. There are ways to be close and intimate with sex. You could just touch or be close. He should be reassuring you that you are still infact still loved and attractive.
@bigmama18, i have and he gave me the “it’s not you it’s me “ but still hasnt reassured that he finds me pretty😞 and that he would like to spice things up ( froma prior pre pregnancy convo) but can’t
Is it worse that I found text messages joking that he’s bored and wants to be entertained........ I know he would NEVER but it still hurts.
Some men are weirded out by the belly. They are afraid it can hurt the baby. Just be honest about how it makes you feel and find out if that is the reason he doesn’t want to be.
@aengs2, he says he doesn’t mind either but it’s like twice a month if I’m lucky and I have to finish myself most of the time.