I went to a sex shop to ask the same thing, they only had numbing creams for anal and she suggested it wouldn’t be safe for me to use it on the V during pregnancy. Everyone only suggested different lubes and there for awhile one made a slight difference but it is horrendously painful now! Lots of Bs & Handys for my hubs 🤣🤷🏽♀️🤗
I'm not really sure if you can put it in the v but I have a gay guy friend who uses numbing cream for his but he gets it from a sex shop if u have one in your town I'd ask them what's best to use while pregnant or your obgyn