I’m really sorry is this your situation right now? That’s sad and I hope he comes around for u and his child. Also I hope u have others that will be around for moral support. We are all here for u if u need us!!
They think you're too occupied to make it more difficult for them I guess. Or they don't know how to feel about it themselves. When the baby comes then you know more about where they actually stand. I focused on my son and ignored his dad. Needed my son to be happy. I made sure to do fun things and keep my mind occupied. He came around after but now that I've done without him for 9 months I'm stronger and can do without him period if I need to. We are soooo powerful. We can make another human. Remember that.