So ever since we moved into our new apartment and our son has his own room now, he hasn’t really been listening when I say it’s bedtime because his not use to sleeping without us in the same room but today when I said bed time he grabbed he’s blanket and bottle and went to he’s room and shut his door and went to bed 😭😭 made me a little sad lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I hate this. I feel so needy we live 4 hours away from any of my family and old friends so I literally have no one but my husband to talk to. So when he is home I try to get all the adult interaction I can get. I can tell he is just over me he gave me the controller and told me to put on whatever I wanted to watch because he watched what he wanted. So I put a show on Netflix on and he disappeared after about an hour or two I went to our room and he's laying on the bed watching our TV. I asked him if he wanted the living room TV he could use it and he said he would rather relax before work and not be smothered by me on the couch. Maybe its hormones but it kind of hurt my feelings. I do sit next to him on the couch but I try to give him room but our toddler likes to join us. I mean I get you needing you time but he does get it all the time. He plays games with his friends and when he isn't doing that he has his shows on and tuning me out. Just feel really emotional about it.
LONG: SOs room mate strikes again? I don't hate the guy, he's a great guy. But we had recently gotten a new couch because we got sick and tired of him sleeping on the in the living room while he has his own bed 5 feet away from him and the couch smelling like cigarettes because he smokes them. But when we moved the couch in (well SO and his friend), we put one of the three tvs and the TV stand (which is SOs not the room mates) it was on in SOs room, but his room mate put some of his stuff in the TV stand which we took out his stuff, and neatly put his stuff which included his wrestling stuff in the hallway, we even sent him a text beforehand and he said "okay, thank you for letting me know," and I took a picture of where In the closet I put his wrestling gear in a white bag so it'll be easier to find because they weren't in a bag and they're black gear. So it's like 4-5 o'clock in the morning and he's in our bed room, looking into the TV stand saying he couldn't find his gear. There was no knock at our bedroom door (SO and I are very light sleepers we wake up to the front door opening and our room is on the other side of the apartment) I heard him come in the room and SO took Tylenol PMs for his migraine and didn't go to bed until 30 minutes before his room mate came home so he's passed out. But he heard Brian drop something, so he's up a few seconds after me and said "WTF are you doing dude?" And he's like "I'm looking for my wrestling gear" and my SO said "Maddison sent you a picture message of where they are, they're in the closet" and is room mate says "oh yeah! I forgot" mind you ladies, I'm half naked. I had my tank top on and panties, and I sleep with one of my legs out of the covers and wrap myself around SO at night. So my panties are showing. And SO confronted him about it and you know what his room mate said "Ok, and? I wouldn't f her, plus she's pregnant." What does that even mean?! We now have to lock our bed room door now while SO is at work and at night. He's talking to the leasing department tomorrow if it's okay to change the bedroom locks just in case of we have to change them back. But the guy is a great guy and the biggest sweetheart but sometimes he just doesn't use his head. But he did apologize to us but it still upsets me that he couldn't even knock. I mean he used to take the fan out of the room while SO is at work to air out the kitchen because the smoke detector goes off even when we turn the stove on over 350 degrees which we weren't upset about, but he proceeded to take SOs full clothes baskets and put the clothes on the floor of SOs room closet and used them for his dirty clothes while he has 5 baskets i shat you not but this time it crossed the line. It's just he could've knocked on our door, you know? But I'm glad he apologized, just still ticked me off and just needed to vent about it.
So, our downstairs neighbors have been banging on the ceiling every time our son walks. It scares him every time because it’s loud and he can feel it. I’m about over it. He’s TWO. He’s learning how to walk quietly but it’s hard for him. After about the 10th bang, I usually just put him in his high chair or his room. But I shouldn’t have to trap my kid in his own house bc of rude grown adults.
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
Genesis Bonilla·Мама сына (2 года)
@mhbb3, I know :( lol
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