But I complain about my weight! 🤦🏻😅
I am only on my 2nd trimester and I gained so much weight! 😭 Can you mommas tell me what’s like a normal weight gain to be expected, please.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
If i had the money i would def move to California
Weight Gain What week are you and how much weight have you gained so far?
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Yes!
Jelly 🔮·
Yes
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam i don't like that part at all, how long does it last? Until i stop? And what bout bc too?
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@jellybeans_mumm ugh thanks, i never knew this. I was thinking but wasnt sure
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Not really sure, about 1yr. Im not losing weight now, i got fat. Im assuming when i wean my hormones will change again and ill gain a little then too. Bc everyone is different, pill made me gain.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@bitchcraft omg no! Im already small i dont need to be losing any weight!
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam i got the insert that last 5 year's i think it was. And it seems like everything is making me lose weight. Def not what i wanted
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Are you eating enough??
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam i don't think i am
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Breastfeeding can use up to 500 calories a day so just make sure youre eating enough.
Dina Isaac ·
With my first I lost way to much weight and after I stopped breast feeding I gained some back. But it made me so un healthy.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@dinamarie1995 ahhh this is my first n i feel like im jus continuously losing weight. I dont like it at all at all. If i just pump will it be the same? And then ive been hearing of boobs deflating?
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam ahh im probably not eating nuff
Dina Isaac ·
I think it will be the same because it so many calories your “burning” from producing the milk. I hated it it. I was sickly small. I am normally 135 and I got done to 110. I didn’t have the weight to loose. My whole family said it looked like I was on drugs I wasn’t. Just breast feeding. I’ve been trying to eat more this time around but it’s not working. I don’t have an appetite as it is. And I get sick if I eat a lot. But try and snack more
Dina Isaac ·
And boob deflating I wouldn’t know! I would hope not. I know lots of people who have just pumped and didn’t say boobs were different
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@dinamarie1995 yes see im normally 138-145 and rn i don't even want to know what i weigh. Smh. N my son eats alot omg, he's feeding rn as im typing this honestly. And i just wanted to breasfeed him because they said it was better.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@dinamarie1995 well that's good, I've jyst heard many diff things but i lose weight when i was pregnant with him now I'm losing again.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
So if you don't pump wouldnt you still need to get all the milk out still though?
Dina Isaac ·
I technically lost while I was pregnant I gained what my daughter was which was 7 pounds. Smoothies helped me feel a little better since I couldn’t eat much. Please don’t let your self get to bad. I did and it almost killed me. I went to the doctors and they told me if I didn’t get healthy I wouldn’t be able to raise my daughter. It helped me eat a little more but I know how hard it is! I was also in icu for 6 days half weight and half other issues. But it’s no joke so people breast feed to loose weight after babies. And there are some that get really sick. As they literally suck us dry as they say! Being in the hospital made me stop breast feeding. The baby helps get more milk out I believe but pumping gets most out.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@dinamarie1995 ahh yeah I'm def at the point where i feel like it's sucking all my energy n ect out of me! But i think I'm getting really unhealthy and need to transition him to formula at least he's almost 1 years old. Because i often feel sick and drained from breastfeeding.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@dinamarie1995 i def just breastfed for my baby i didn't know it was going to make me lose so much. Or else i would have thought about it.
Melinda Westad·
Yes. I was 123 lbs before I got pregnant and now I’m 119 lbs and my son is 4.5 months. My clothes are baggy on me. I only go to the gym once a week and the rest of the time I’m just busy being a mom and going about my day.
Tati Love·
Мама сына-младенца
@2sweetieso ugh. What to do