For mom’s with two kids!!! Was the transition easy? Was your oldest jealous??? I need some peace of mind?
@breloya, oh okay thank you for the input
My oldest was and still is obsessed with her. They literally follow each other around, fight over toys, and love to just be with each other. For me though, the hardest part was finding time to have one on one time with my oldest because I was so busy with the baby for a couple of months. It got easier of course.
@micgennyy, my son loves babies also I just don’t know how he will react once he realizes the baby is staying lol
@bigmama18, thank you for the reassurance
I have the same fear but my daughter absolutely lovessss babies, whenever she sees one she just wants to hug and talk to them. 😂 my daughter will be 18 months when I have my second in October!
@ryans_mommy14, my oldest was 6.5 when my daughter was born. He did just fine. I was also worried about the same thing or thought he would resent me because he was being replaced but none of that happened.
@loving_the_mommy_life, oh ok
@vvrobinson, that’s great I hope Ryan is the same way with his little brother
@katwillbrand, that’s also what I’m worried about!!!
@bigmama18, thank you. He will be 4 when the new baby comes. I’m just worried he will be jealous because it’s always been me and him only
My oldest was jealous everyones kid's are very different up until now sometimes he is still very jealous he wants me all to himself but I let him know there's 2 of them so they both need me and I tell him I love him and his brother the same they don't get treated any differently...
My 3 year old lovessssss his brother, he says it’s his baby 😂 the transition wasn’t all that bad for us but the hard part is finding time to spend with hubby 😔
When I added each child the one before was never jealous. They were actually a help. They wanted to love on the new baby a bit much but nothing bad. I’m sure your son will do just fine.
It was the absolute hardest thing I have ever done in my life lol. But that was mostly because my daughter was colicky and I had PPD. My son was mostly apathetic towards her 😂