Dani is cluster feeding so I've been in a bra and underwear all day. What's the point in clothes if you've gotta pop a tit out every hour on the hour 😭😭😭.
@muva.tings just got back from the store wearing a dress now im about to get comfortable to breastfeed
Yep! No point in clothes if you’re nursing constantly plus you’re probably covered in milk and spit up. Don’t worry it gets better. Your baby needs you right now so just hang in there. It won’t be like this for long.
Same here no need to get all dress up just walk around in your bra al day because you know its going to be used in a hour or so
@jellybeans_mumm omfg thank you so much. I'll definitely attempt that tomorrow. I have too much work due to hold her 24/7.
@muva.tings, try swaddling her and place a little Hankey or cloth in ur bra for the night so it has your scent then when you swaddle her she will feel like she’s being held cause u will place the cloth inside the swaddle so she can smell it .. and yes demanding is what they are I’m preparing for that all over again 😭😭😭
@jellybeans_mumm lmaooo demanding is the perfect word for it. I'm so glad she's napping rn but, she won't let me put her down.
Ugh cluster is the worse ! But well worth it , might as well stay naked lol BF babies are so demanding
@vvrobinson its really hard, I feel so bad when she cries. She's been fussy even after she eats all day and won't let me put her down not even to go pee lol.
If you get more then 4 hours of sleep I'm jealous 😭😭😭😭
Not someone getting mad at me for telling her I wouldnt watch her kids for 4$ an hour 10 hours a day🥴😭
Opinions on hungrier baby milk? My girl is drinking well over 30 oz in 24 hours. I tried her with water inbetween feeds but she just won't settle in till she has milk as she's hungry not thirsty. She's awake like 18 hours a day 😭
I have been crying for the last hour because shit is getting real and I'm fucking scared! it's gonna hurt and that's what scares me the most. Idk of I can do this! I'm not built for this I'm not strong enough to handle this. ugh 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I can't cope 😭 Basically 9 hours of crying 💔
@muva.tings, well all babies are different. With my daughter she was so sleepy I had to wake her up for feedings until she was about 6 weeks old. With my son, he nurses all day about every 1.5-2 hours. He likes to nap while nursing so I just nurse him a lot. He’s 4.5 months and still does that. But he sleeps thru the night. Usually once babies start moving more, like sitting up and crawling, then they don’t nurse as much. So expect to nurse a lot for at least the first 6 months. It seems like a long time but when you think about a baby’s entire life it’s actually a short amount of time and you’ll miss it when it’s over.