Ladies I’m in some doubt my partner of 5 years has a habit of hiding his phone and stuff when he goes to sleep is that a…
Ladies I’m in some doubt my partner of 5 years has a habit of hiding his phone and stuff when he goes to sleep is that a sign of something to hide im pregnant with his 3rd son I just don’t know what to do anymore and it constantly all the time I can never get why he does it he’s been doing it from the start even from when I was pregnant with our 1&2nd son but I still stayed with him cos I didn’t think anything of it and now 5 years later he still does it😪💔
A desperate mama looking for answers 💔💔
Rachael·
I would just ask him out right to look through his phone randomly. See how he reacts x
MamaOfThree·
@rachaellw, yeah I will he’s still sleeping cuddling boys as they woke up with bad dreams last night 💔😡
Rachael·
@mamaofthree21, I hope your wrong and he isn’t messing around. When i get paranoid i ask my husband out right and just watch his reaction. We will ask each other to check who’s text or called us we are pretty open with the phones x
MamaOfThree·
@rachaellw, I hope so too but where he’s cheated b4 I can’t fully trust anything he says atm && every time I ask him if he’s cheated he changes the subject or goes and plays with the kids & im so open with my phone I leave it laying around it’s got no password on it or anything but I don’t see why he has to hide it 😪💔
Sarahleeds·
My ex partner use to do this so one day he was in shower I sneaked his phone from his pocket had a nosey and found the most disgusting stuff on there dirty txt ect I sneaked the number rang it was a female asked her out if she had done anything with him she was honest said yes he said he was single not saying it will be same in Ur case but just becareful I don't c y u have to hide things unless there's stuff u don't want people to c ask him straight or try sneak the phone xx
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
I would just ask him, my partner has only kept his phone on him when he has screenshots of Christmas presents for me lol could be nothing x
MamaOfThree·
@nataliielouiseexo, I’m worried what I will find on there 😪
MamaOfThree·
@luvmybabypeaxx, I don’t know where his phone is he’s hidden it x
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@mamaofthree21 it'll drive you crazy not knowing so I would honestly just ask him you don't need the stress while your pregnant
MamaOfThree·
@nataliielouiseexo, yeah I know it will I’m gonna have to ask x
tasha·
Мама сына (1 год)
Just ask him outright to have look through his phone, put it mind at rest. Should be no reason why he needs to hide it.
MamaOfThree·
It’s a struggle everyday 💔
deborahjq·
It's been 5 years of him doing this. You're past the point of asking. Take the phone when you have the chance and start looking, but I think you know he's up to no good.
You could always call his bluff and say, "I know what's on your phone," and go from there based on his reaction.
Sara-Louise·
He's hiding his phone, changes subject/ walks away when you bring it up & he's cheated before... Doesn't look good. But I hope I'm wrong. If he has nothing to hide then there's no reason to avoid the subject, simple.
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Doesn’t sound good hun from my experience however pregnancy can cause us to be hormonal wrecks. Ask to look at his phone if he says no then there’s your answer xxx
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@mamaofthree21, follow your gut hun always welcome to inbox me xxx
Leanne·
@mamaofthree21 i agree with all the other ladies everytime iv had a gut feeling iv always been right and iv had to investage ask him out right babes see he reaction in my option if some1 asked me id say stop being silly here my phone you can tell alot by a way a person acts hun x
MamaOfThree·
@babymumma86, I just don’t wanna hurt the kids I would rather just end the relationship & let him get on with it
K·
@mamaofthree21 I'd just ask to see his fone for your peace of mind hopefully its just your hormones playing up x
Leanne·
I totally agree but you dont wanna kick him out of your not 100% sure so ask him babes im a mum of 5 its best to be single and happy then always feel your being lie to or cheated to hope you get to the bottom of it babes xx @mamaofthree21
Sarahleeds·
@mamaofthree21 Hun I agree with the other ladies he's acting like he has something to hide I let my ex get away with cheating once u let them I believe u open the door for them that's what happened to me I use to have girls calling me his sister I was young and dumb I thought I loved him he treat me like shit and hid his phone constantly I would always bide my time and sneak it I finally had enough and grew up u have children so if he is doing it when Ur pregnant he's no respect in my opinion last thing u need is stress and u have already brought the subject up so he nos u have suspicion any man with nothing to hide would pass u the phone me n my partner now both go on each others phone no questions asked I learnt my lesson I hope he isn't upto no good u don't need it Hun just ask him for the phone if he says no I would tell him to go he's clearly got something to hide good luck Hun x
Bethany·
Мама дочки (2 года)
If hes cheated before then he can do it again.... I would never stay with soneone that has cheated. Its basically telling them it was ok personally....go with your gut....ask him. Depends really where you want the relationship to go. Dont let having 3 kids make you stay in something you are unhappy about.
Personally though I dont share my phone with my partners..never have..dont even let family and friends use it. My phone is personal to me. Doesnt mean Im doing anything wrong though. X