Always wear a rain jacket when it’s wet ☔️ 💦 I agree wearing a condom outside a monogamous sexual relationship is key. @spookylyn, is totally right.

You need to protect that precious baby in you and make sure he wears a condom. Also, there’s never a time during pregnancy that you can guarantee a miscarriage isn’t going to happen. Lastly, please think higher of yourself and don’t fool around with someone you’re not married to. It’s only going to hurt you, and your child, in the long run.

Agree with everyone 💯 Tell him!! If he's going to be there he'll be there now or after the 13 weeks. If he doesn't care, let him leave and be a big girl for you and your child.

@spookylyn, I agree this is very vague and confusing at best.

@nursemomma28, well first of all he shouldn't be going raw everywhere, that's not sanitary at all 😐 i wouldn't be having sex with him.. unless i knew i was his sole partner 😐

I would tell him, he has a right to know. If you wait he’s gonna deny that baby to the fullest, especially if y’all are using condoms now.

@cams, no I get it we have been broken up less than a week ago he acts like we are together one second and then the next he is acting like a jerk

@121909pss, I always want to think the best in people but why do you say he’s sexing other people?

Thank you for all the replies I forgot to say he just doesn’t want to go raw in my vagina that he’ll go raw anywhere else it’s my hormones I just am so frustrated! We broke up like less than a week ago?

Honestly I'd tell him. There is never a safe part of pregnancy. Anything can happen at any time. Using condoms is a good idea anyways. Always protect yourself. That's just me though.

If I wasn’t exclusively dating someone, pregnant or not I would insist on a condom. Just just common sense. No glove, no love.

Girl that man is sexing other ppl stop just let that sex shit go for now just relax that baby will be here in no time

He would probably be more upset if you waited until 13 weeks to tell him and honestly your never in a safe part of pregnancy until you deliver and holding baby in your arms. And as @boymamachronicles, said it’s not about trust. You never know who he has slept with maybe he knows something and it’s protecting you. And with out him really knowing he’s also protecting your baby.

Using a condom is a fantastic idea. You asked him over for sex so don't expect anything groundbreaking. I think its best to tell him asap anyway, you can both experience it together if he chooses to do that. Imagine if you had a miscarriage and he didn't even know you were pregnant.

well.. he probably doesn't want to get the girl he isn't in relationship with currently (you) pregnant.. and that's why he wants to use a condom. or he doesn't know where you've been or who you've been with since the break up and is trying to protect himself. OR he's been with other people and is protecting you. condoms don't define trust, it's something to prevent STDs and pregnancy.

also, tell him you're pregnant, no sense in hiding it.

Girl I would tell him because when u do hes most likely gon be like its not his because u guys r using condoms now ... I would talk to him and tell him