Why does almost everyone have to say “Your life is over” just because I’m pregnant🤦🏾♀️
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@aengl lol Apparently that's what "life" means to them right now. When I was in college, that was my life also to an extent. As I matured, my priorities changed. In time, their current "lives" will also probably be "over" because they'll mature and change priorities too. You're just starting the transition earlier than them.
Personally, I love being the "old lady" who would rather curl up at home with the same man every night to a movie and takeout, than to be at a loud bar, drinking, until 3am, with random drunk dudes trying to grind up in me all night.
Anyway, it's a transition, and they just don't understand and can't see it as anything but bad. But it isn't necessarily. 😊
@leowifey, They always just talk about superficial things like parties and just having sex with random people 🤦🏾♀️
@bigmama18, I’m 22 and at first it was a shock and I was struggling whether or not to keep him but I’m glad I did. He’s already pushed me to do things I didn’t think I was capable of
@leowifey, I agree with what was said here by leowifey 😁. Life as you knew it is over once you have a baby in your arms who is now completely dependent upon you for literally everything. If you are good with giving up things then it is an easy transition. But it is hard going from being able to do things when you want and then to being at the mercy of a child. Your life changes in big ways and sadly it won’t ever be quite the same. But some people just aren’t very good at accepting just how big of an impact or realizing just how all encompassing the change is. I know I wasn’t entirely even though I told myself I was prepared. But you learn, adapt, and grow and eventually life gets back to some semi-balance of what it was. Just never quite the same. But that isn’t necessarily bad. Just depends on perspective. ☺️
In a sense, they're right. The life you've known to this point will be over. Your priorities, hobbies, free time, etc. are all going to change. Your focus will be around your child and parenting - you'll never not be a parent again.
The phrase itself can be interpreted to be positive or negative, but it's actually fairly accurate.
Your life is just truly beginning! I am sorry your friends are so immature? Are you on the young side? I never received comments like that. However I do recommend taking time this pregnancy to do certain things for yourself that might be harder after baby, like a dinner out with friends, your partner. A little getaway, a massage, getting your nails done. All of it IS harder when baby is here, but that’s not what life is about. It’s also not impossible, just harder and you may not want to, but you need to, have a bit of YOU time once in a while. I also suggest to find some new friends/ either they don’t have kids or they do, but aren’t the type of parent you aspire to be.
I don't know about age but your life is going to be over but a new life is going to begin so it's not bad
I promise that’s just ignorance . Don’t listen to them & keep your head up mama 💪🏽
You look young, so I’m going to go with because they a judgmental assholes. Your life isn’t over. You’re starting a new chapter. It’s going to drastically change. But for the better.
@leowifey, I mean, I was never huge on going out all the time. Guys in those types of setting make me uncomfortable and I’ve been with the same guy for a couple of years now. I try telling them it’s not that deep because even before I stayed home lol. I’ve always just hung out and watched movies with my friends and some things. Maybe like one party a year. But we also live on a mountain so we don’t have anything going on in the first place😂