**Advice needed** So its a few days b4 my baby sprinkle/shower. Ive done everything myself and dont have a host 😕 my bestfriend was supposed to be in charge and has done nothing at all. Kinda got me feeling some type of way...my pride wont let me ask her if she can still host for me..what would you do?
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@efesmama dropping the ball w/no follow up. Wks ago I said something abt whats the plan & she kinda laughed it off. My MIL was the one covering all expenses & she knew that. So I dont know what the deal is
@robin080109, my thing is you dropped the ball, so what are you going to do about it? If she was saying I dropped the ball on a
Big event but I was thinking of coordinating a few people to meet us at a restaurant, that would at least show intent to do something. But if you just dropped the ball with no solution that’s a fail for me
@robin080109, no no no that definitely warrants a sit down
@db413 oh no. Im questioning if either of my bf will show up. Things change with friends once things in your life start chnaging
@efesmama She texted the night b4 and said Oh I guess I dropped the ball with the baby shower. Because Ive been upset and have a lot on my plate. I didnt address it at that time
@zoeysmom28 oky. Exactly how I feel
Your the host now girl not her. I agree with the first comment as well. Then at a time it won't ruin your day ask her what's the deal.
My sister and my best friend were suppose to plan and host mine. But they wouldn’t tell me anything. They wouldn’t even tell me what day it was or who was invited. I finally got it out of my best friend. And they planned it for a weekend I was extremely busy. So I ended up planning and hosting my own. And my best friend didn’t even show up.
It’s 2018, host your own shower. But, if she really is your friend, and she knows the preparations you’ve done, then you should have a talk with her. Because if she’s done nothing with you but is planning with others, then you may be making an assumption in which case it would be an awesome surprise for you. If she hasn’t done anything at all and had no plans to, you need to ask her why as your best friend she wouldn’t want to plan this for you.
I totally agree with @zoeysmom28, letting her host will be like giving her credit for something she didn’t do.
If you planned it by yourself && done everything by yourself, I wouldn’t ask her. Because I’m sure she knew before hand this was what was asked of her. Letting her be the host is like letting her take the credit for putting something together that she technically didn’t. Just my opinion. @robin080109
@robin080109, tell me about it. My so called best friend stopped hanging out with me because I can’t go out drinking with her like I use to