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So my husband ended up having to work for his birthday. He normally works 8 hrs then gets off so I planned something…

So my husband ended up having to work for his birthday. He normally works 8 hrs then gets off so I planned something special. I got money to take him to eat, then to our bar to drink and play pool, then I was going to take him next door to the hotel we first got together at. When he opens the door he will see happy birthday spelled out in rose petals on the bed and a ring around the bed. I packed is work clothes and stocked up on beer so we can go there and relax and get freaky any way he wants. Well he went to work at 4 am and won't get to get off until 5:30pm then has to drive an hour to get home so I know hes exhausted, then he calls and says his legs are really chapped from getting sweaty so he doesn't know if he wants to go celebrate tonight. (He doesn't know about the hotel). I'm trying to be understanding but I'm pretty upset and tried not to cry over the phone because that would give away that there was a surprise. I don't know if I should tell him if he refuses to go or just cancel my plans. I really really wanted to be romantic and surprise him but it looks like the world is against me today 😭😭😭

Update: well we went out to dinner then I drove him to the hotel. He got so mad when he found out I rented a room saying I was wasting money. I insisted he see the room so he got out and slammed the door, I took him to the room and showed him and he immediately turned around and hugged me and started apologizing. After that he enjoyed himself and started thanking me for doing something so sweet for him. Poor baby he was so tired so I tried to do everything for him. Over all it was a really good special night.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a…

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I…

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going…

Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!