@swedishmomma thank you! 💙💙

@xoamby I thought the same thing, I was actually told it would slow down or completely stop when I was pregnant with our first. He drank the whole time I was pregnant, that's when I started sleeping alone and have been since. And again. Just this weekend he told me don't worry I'm not gonna drink 10 beers tonight and he did drink ten beers booth Friday and Saturday night! Lately I have been keeping a note pad in my phone and writing down everytime he drinks 10 beers. I don't write the others nights because it's usually 6 or 8 beers. Does your man drink all the time or just at night? Oh and he's a good dad to and works but at night he wants to rush everyone to bed so he can start drinking. I hate that he does it, especially now that we have 3 kids. I just don't know what to do anymore. And we have talked about it a lot but nothing ever changes. Same goes for his smoking cigarettes again. Keeps saying he's gonna quit this weekend and never does. I keep thinking about all that money he is wasting away on that stuff and we could be saving for a house because we live in a 2 bedroom condo with 5 people now.

I forgot to say, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who has been down that road, message me anytime. I'm here for you, it sucks I know!

@xoamby oh I hear you.. old habits die hard... its so hard to deal with, especially with kiddos involved. Its good that he's a great dad though. Hopefully he will seek some professional help in the future, alcoholism is really hard :(

@swedishmomma He's always drank, the whole 8 years we've been together. I think I believed he'd slow down after we had Eli, but boy was I wrong! Still the same ol' shit. I hate it bc he's such a good man, awesome dad.

@ladyfreyja thanks love!

@breannkayhenrick1997 thank you 💚

Amen sister. I hear you. Your baby is freaking adorable

Oh god, I'm sorry.. it can be so hard. My ex husband was one, it is awful, I hear you..

Praying for you