How would we go about it if my boyfriend were going to adopt my son?
His “father” is not on the birth certificate.
You contact the district court. Tell them what you’re trying to do and they will give you a website to go on. You download the form, fill it out sign it, and submit it. They will give you a court date for you to go and explain yourself to a judge. Not sure what this will cost you where you are from but in Texas I was told it’s only $500.
A lot of states require the father to relinquish all rights, if he has any. But contacting a lawyer will give you the best info.
My husband signed my son's birth certificate.....