So as a single mom, I recently am seeing someone... he also has a son that’s 4 , (my daughter is a year and half), and…

That’s great story I’m happy for you!! See him and I just don’t want to introduce our kids to anyone over and over anytime it doesn’t workout we’re on the same page with that part, like we talked about doing stuff together with our kids little down the road. So like we definitely have those plans, and he’s pretty much on same page as me with all that, he’s just as guarded as I am. But idk how or when to make more steps. I come over once or couple times a week and sometimes stay the night , but until we get our kids involved our time is limited so it’s hard to plan too much with our work schedules. I have feelings for his guy because I see how he’s a great dad, I see how mature he is , I’m attracted to him more than anyone I’ve talked to or anything, and he even asks about my daughter all the time and talks about his son all the time.

I met my current boyfriend almost a year ago and I introduced my son to him the 2nd day we met and we even stayed the night at his house that night, I'm an unconventional person so the way I did it isn't for everyone but I always made it clear that my son is part of the package and he'd be involved in everything so I usually introduced him pretty quickly to see how it went with the guy I was interested in. Kids are a very good judge of character and if my son liked someone right away then there was a possibility for something there. My boyfriend and I have a little one together now and we are going on a year being together, my son loved him right away when he met him. So it's really whenever you feel comfortable.

@_inkednurse, thank you 🙏😊.