@yelitzagarcia70 totally get it. You want your own time, time to do the laundry that's piled up (cuz I remember doing laundry like every day!) Dishes (OMG! The effing bottles!!! I exclusively pumped, so pump parts and bottles are the bane of my existence!) And then there's the feeding, if you're breastfeeding, you're a literal cow to this little sack of meat you're trying desperately to keep alive... second guessing everything!! Co-sleep or crib? Bottle or boob? Stroller or baby wear? Wipe warmer or not? Everyone has their opinions and they all give it out as if you asked to hear it, when all you want to hear is you're doing great, keep going and that is does in fact get better.

You're doing great! Keep going, it does in fact get better! ❤

(Except maybe teething... for me at least, I'll take the newborn phase over teething!😂)

@mermaidmeshy, aww thanks yes the try to sleep when baby asleep is hard

It's ok to need help! Especially in those first weeks and months when you're adjusting to everything. Baby is also adjusting, remembering that was helpful for me. Just make sure that the help you get is actually helping. Sometimes people think they're helping but they make it worse. Also I know everyone has said sleep when baby does and it's totally BS, but try. Even for 20 minutes. Much love new mommy, you got this!