I have a question. My kids father doesn’t want to work things out with me , but he still want to come over and sleep over for months here so. Am I wrong for telling him I want space because I need healing and I need to learn how to be independent
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You're far from wrong! in fact you're actually taking a big step towards your independence by being honest with him about that
I would be honest with him. It's not fair to you that he wants to do that, but not willing to work things out with you. Let him know how hard that will be on you and not only will it confuse you, but like you said you won't become independent.
No you aren’t wrong. Space and time is necessary to heal, and continuing to allow him to lay up in your home isn’t going to help you move on. Stand up for yourself mama and let him know it’s a no go.
I need some advice! I just had my son a little over a month ago and I want to wait 5-10 years to have another baby. Is a age gap a bad thing?
Not to mention this one over someone politely commenting that you had your years mixed up and provided proof. 🤔
Do I need to continue?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need you guys to be brutally honest with me. I don't want false hope. I want what you truly believe.
OF COURSE NOT he can’t use you or your place as a hotel