At my shower when prolly asked what I wanted or needed I said diapers and wipes .. I got CASES and bags of diapers and wipes .. they all didn't wanna just buy that so I also got other cute and needed items but I found that for me my reply succeed and surpassed expectations lol
Have someone host a diaper shower for you. Or a diaper raffle. My two showers were both diaper raffles and then I got surprised with an actual diaper and wipe shower. I am stocked on diapers for probably the first year at least. Something to look into.