Yikes, I’d call him now. What if you went into labor tmw that would be a bad look.

@mojobebe Yes, I just haven't found a time to tell my boss that's all. When my supervisor (his wife) got sick i kind of thought she would get better and that was when I'd share my news. She ended up not getting better and passed away only a week ish ago. It just feels weird to call him up, because he's not back in the office yet, and be like "I'm pregnant" after he just lost his wife. I guess the whole situation with his family is out of my control though so I shouldn't feel like I can't tell him.

@emily526, got it. But wouldn’t you want to give them a heads up so they can find a replacement for you while you are gone or so they can plan to divide your duties among your other coworkers?

@mojobebe I'm not hiding it, I just haven't told my coworkers. They might suspect, I have no idea. But I also don't show very much. I didn't with my 1st either.

@newlyironman We file for our own leave so no one needs to know for that to happen. And legally no one needs to know period, it's a courtesy. I didn't tell them with my 1st until I was 32 weeks. I had her at 35 weeks and that's when I filed for my leave.

How did you manage to hide your pregnancy for so long?

So you're about to need maternity leave and they don't know you're pregnant?