***I'm not trying to sell anything to anyone on here***
So, I made a leap I've been contemplating on for a while now. I'm usually not into direct sales, but I found something I am extremely passionate about: Norwex cleaning products. I'm officially a consultant!
The reason why I'm posting this here? Because I need to vent:
All these family & friends that invite me to their Tupperware, nail, scentsy, and other parties expect me to support them (when they're just hosting) but won't even acknowledge that I'm trying to make a few extra bucks for the family. I do what I can for these people... i don't/can't buy a bunch of things, but I TRY to spend at least $20. 🤷♀️ but as soon as I invite them to my launch party, they automatically say "not going." Uhm... it's on Facebook. You literally sit on your couch/bed. The best part? They always say, "you should host a party" or "you should sign up under me" but can't even support me when it doesn't have to benefit them. Even if they don't/can't buy anything at that time, it would be nice for them to host a FREE party on Facebook (at the least).
These products are awesome, I just wish my family and "friends" would support me as much as they say they would :(
That’s how it usually goes, which is not right, I hope it goes great for you even without them.
My family keeps trying to push me away from the army saying it isn't for black women and that I need a real job and how they would devastated if I went thru with it , I'm so freakin sick of this mess 😔
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

I would say postpartum was for me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I was debating posting this here, but I feel like I would have quite a bit of support here... So a few months ago I was diagnosed with both lupus and RA.. A couple weeks ago I went to the rhumatolgist and had further blood work.. I went yesterday for the results and on top of the lupus and RA she also diagnosed me with scleroderma and an autoimmune disease called mixed connective tissue disease.. I was okay with all of the diagnosis' until she said that the average life expectancy of the MCTD...
@let_there_be_life thank you :)