Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Honest opinion am I overreacting....so my mother in law and sister in law didn't call my son on his birthday on Wednesday. Yet they knew it was his 2nd birthday. I was so upset and hurt because we've lived with them so I considered them like my actual family. My mom threw a surprise party for my son that night it was literally only my sister,brother,mom and aunt and one of my friends and of course us. Well my mom decided to go fb live with us singing happy birthday. My mother in law comments that why didn't we tell her anything so I tell my mom if she really cared she would've called him to say something.Even family members that I don't talk to often messaged him a video singing to him! So the next day I receive a message from my sister in law asking me why I didn't invite them. I then explained that either of them called to tell him anything. So then she was like well you could've still invited us and then I explained that it wasn't my right to do anything since it was my brother sister and mother throwing it for him! So then I told her that they were more than welcome to throw him anything if they truly wanted to needles to say they were mad because they weren't invited to my son's surprise party. And I apparently should've told them to call my son super frustrating. Well I'm so glad my family loves my son and spoils him they do everything for him so I am truly blessed. Just gets me upset because birthdays are a big deal in my family.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
Ashley·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
@preciouslove i mean can we get some type of justice Amen😀
Angela·
Мама четверых детей
@ashjordan2011, right!
Ashley·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
@preciouslove i agree with you alot of mean feel they should get a pass for what they do ...they treat you like shit they have ass it when it comes to the child but your the one to blam... Yea but we as mothers that have 90 percent custody has all the say so especially in court ....he is Cleary still a kid livibg home with his gf in his parents home ...they bby him so gone keep doing what hr doing until u take matters into your hands n get papers than he want get upset over shit that he was not invited to in the frist place
Azalia.·
Мама сына (3 года)
@linacorral1562 what gets me mad is that the fact that his gf is such an instigator, she's young so she doesn't know how we have to be in good terms for our child and so she won't see us getting along she instigates
Buneeh ·
Мама подростка
@tonys.mom1, ik it’s tough. It’s not fair but just remember he’s playing these games to try and push your buttons and get a rise out of you. An abuser gets power through intimidation and instilling fear. Make little contact, ignore, tune him out. When he no longer has an audience he will realize that it’s time to get off the stage. At least that’s what I’d hope for you.
Azalia.·
Мама сына (3 года)
@buneeh it just does get to me that he makes me look like I'm the bad guy and like he's the victim, I hope I can use this in court because I never reply on anything to him
Buneeh ·
Мама подростка
Don’t reply to his FB post. Social media is so toxic. Im sure ppl reading his post already realize he’s an abusive A-hole. If you reply you will be playing into this games. It’s bait. You should copy/ print his horrible postings maybe you can use it as evidence in court. In the meantime keep focused on you and your child. The party is for your kid. Someone else threw the party. If he ex didn’t get an invite oh well. He can throw is own party for his own kid.
Angela·
Мама четверых детей
@tonys.mom1, He shouldn’t ask you for money you take care of his son. He’s just mad when you’re the one that has a reason to be. Is he a good father and active parent? Either way you’re not obligated when people are separated they usually don’t throw birthday parties together unless they have a really good relationship. Me and my boys dad are cool now we’re really good friends but at the beginning of our break up we couldn’t even talk. Hopefully things will get better ma.
Azalia.·
Мама сына (3 года)
@preciouslove no I didn't ask him for money, just as he decided to put our problems in FB he also said the same thing that he doesn't ask me for money. but he's making me look like I had to invite him
Angela·
Мама четверых детей
Nah I wouldn’t bother ma. It’s not your responsibility to invite him he can have his own party! Why should you feel uncomfortable at your sons party? Did he offer to help pay for it or help in anyway? I’d be like we are not together so if you’d like to have a small gathering for him that’s fine but ur not obligated to invite him when your not on good terms!