The spark is dying and I don’t know what to do. I also feel depressed. I wish I knew what to do.
I feel the same way. Got some advice from a friend to “date” my husband. So go out for date nights . Not sure if that’s something doable for you. Best wishes !
The thing is , I’m scared, for the kids, myself and the idea that it may not work ,
@leongilma92, time may be the thing you need. With my one ex it was super hard and it made me sad and I prolonged it for awhile but it just made it worst.
@missjess, That’s how I feel, I think that is harder because I am at a cross of wanting him here spending time with me.( we live together but he always has things to do) and I also want some space to figure this out. And I feel like whenever he is here we argue and sex is out of the question.
I’ve gone through this and we didn’t work out only because he moved but it took some time apart to make me
Realize I wanted to be with him and once we were together again it was great. I’m kind of going through the same thing with my now bf too but it’s hard because we are in a long distance relationship so I don’t get to see him to work on it and know. :/ he was just here recently and I hadn’t seen him in over 2 years but it wasn’t the same like it was before 🙁 it’s hard I know. I wish I could be more of help but I’m like lost in my own feelings too not knowing . And it’s like you love and care about the person and are willing to make it work and do whatever it is to fix it.
That's funny because i have a chat group and we were just talking about how to keep the romance alive...wanna join?
@lovebeingamom i can add you if you take your profile off of private