I don't see how any woman could allow a man to disown his child. If you want a man to disown one for the other, you need to reevaluate your life. That's just sad to even attempt to do.
Eta: "you" as in general, a person.

If I am understanding this correctly, you can't get upset with things you assume will happen. Co-parenting sometimes involves spending time as a whole. Especially when he is in another relationship. You should respect those boundaries.

That's not a lead on at all. That's a mature, adult relationship, and a mature response to their circumstances. That's how coparenting should work, there is respect and compromise and actual working together. If she sees it as a lead on, then she is looking for something that she wants to be there. The man is just doing his job as a father and only wants his children to be happy. She can hope all she wants, as long as she doesn't get delusional, smh. I don't see how it can be a lead on.
And as for disowning his new child... is she missing a piece of her brain? Let that man be, and let him love and take care of his kids.

@masseymomma16 all I can do is pray about it and hopefully she'll listen if not it's going to be a long 16 years

@candice1234, sounds like she's trying to be a home wrecker and that's the women who give the term "baby mama" it's bad rep.

@candice1234, lol you need to have an intervention or something with this girl! Lol she’s too much.

@masseymomma16 no I didn't make that one up. Lol she claiming she wanting DNA testing done and she claim she done swabbed cheeks to see if they were related. Smh. I know the second part has to be a lie. I mean who would go that far with thing especially when you aren't in a relationship with them

@xxoceanbabexx LMAO. I swear I just fell out laughing reading this one. Lol. Good advise. OMG

@honeyxxbee lol this situation escalates every time their child mentions his girlfriends name. Like she don't want their child around anyone but him when he has her.

@mychemicalshaymance amen to this comment as well. I don't have too many female friends much less too many with children. But even before I had my own my views on this type of behavior has not changed. Why make the children suffer due to your emotions about the situation. Unless the child is put in harm's way just let it be and move on

@anewthing2018 I like this comment too. Whats meant to be will be. The father didn't have too much of the child as a baby but once she got older and talking he tries to spend as much time as possible. But if Mom is upset she makes sure he is too by holding the child from him or causing unnecessary drama. Overall he is trying to be a good dad but also trying to keep the peace but what she does effects his relationship for the same reasons you ladies are commenting.

@mychemicalshaymance lol I gotcha. Lol I believe the same thing it shows what kind of person you truly are vs who you try to portray yourself with others

@rikki. That's exactly what I said

@boymamachronicles high five to this response. All I really know about this situation is that she still wants the family but he has moved on. She was the one that messed up and he is trying to do his part for the sake of their child

@candice1234, so your friend wants him to disown his own child or did you come up with that? Either way. Women don’t need to get coparenting confused with feelings. He may just be doing it for his kids. He moved on...she needs too also.

@xxoceanbabexx I completely agree. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy for feeling just like all of you. It's confusing me just to even think a person would consider this type of behavior is ok

@masseymomma16 booboo. Lol bi was serious when I said this was not coming from me. I just wanted to know how my fellow women feel about this situation instead of it just being me. I feel just like you do. About this

How would you feel if this woman attempted to have her man disown your children?! Your line of thinking is fucked up and you should probably just get over it and move on. Keep it as coparenting.

could be! although idk the situation, if she's dead set on not being a family again, and he knows he fucked up, it shouldn't be a lead on. i used to have to visit with my mom when i was younger, but that doesn't mean she deserved to have me, and when i was smiling it didn't mean i was happy, when i joked with her it didn't mean our relationship was getting better, we just told a joke, if that makes sense. i forgive but don't forget. also i would not interfere with that mans life or children, if we are living our own separate lives we have our own seperate business, and if i want nothing to do with him and no hope, idgaf about his other life, i'll just make sure he handles OUR baby.

I think if he already has a new relationship and another child that she should just move on and be a good co parent.

I don't see how any woman could allow a man to disown his child. If you want a man to disown one for the other, you need to reevaluate your life. That's just sad to even attempt to do.
Eta: "you" as in general, a person.

If I am understanding this correctly, you can't get upset with things you assume will happen. Co-parenting sometimes involves spending time as a whole. Especially when he is in another relationship. You should respect those boundaries.

@anewthing2018 I like your answer. :). My next question would be would you try to have him disown his child with his current lady or try to infiltrate their relationship for your own purposes