I need advice everyone. !! So I do not work because when we moved i was already pregnant & couldn't…
I need advice everyone. !! So I do not work because when we moved i was already pregnant & couldn't get hired anywhere. Well i have been sitting at the house for MONTHS!!! my husband works & is off on weekend but all he wants to do is stay home on the weekends & play his video games. I wanna go out on the weekends & like go see stuff since we moved here we havent been around alot. They have so many festivals here and outdoor trails & stuff. How do i tell him I wanna get out this damn house without sounding like a b***h. I wanna get out and do things before the baby is here im 2 weeks. Im bored.
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Community Admin
Just be honest. Tell him you have cabin fever. He shouldn’t get mad over that.
Brianna Mathews·
@wickedlittlethings. I have told him before & he says he is tired from work. Well im tired of cleaning the house everyday & being here
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@adalynnsmommyy, If he doesn’t want to go, get out yourself and go enjoy your time before baby arrives. That’s what I did and still do. I just have hubby stay home with DD while I go out and shop.
DesertChick·
When my husband does stuff like this, I just go out. I’m not gunna let him spoil me having a good time.
Yaya Carrington·
Мама троих детей
I would go on my own.
Brianna Mathews·
@wickedlittlethings. The only reason why i haven't went myself is I'm supposed to be on bed rest. But i cant do it. I have to be up doing stuff. And im scared if i go somewhere myself ima go into labor & be stuck
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@adalynnsmommyy the day i told my hubby i wanted to get tf out the house and spend time with him is the day i went into labor lol, i told him to spend time with me before our son comes because i knew he was going to make his appearance any day, so he decided to take me on a 4 hour walk 😑, i was 33 weeks & 2 days pregnant. If i were you i would just tell him, who gives a fck if he thinks your being a bitch cause your not, your pregnant and want to spend alone time with him before you cant for awhile, its exactly what i told my hubby, but tell him some of the things you want to do lol so he doesnt force your body into early labor ☺
Yaya Carrington·
Мама троих детей
@adalynnsmommyy That changes things. As far as I know, bedrest means stay in bed. I'm almost positive you shouldn't even be up cleaning the house.
Cams ·
If you’re only 34w and on bedrest you shouldn’t be out and about anyway.
Brianna Mathews·
Yeah i know i shouldnt but i been on bed rest for weeks!!! Like since i was 25 weeks
Brianna Mathews·
I'm not saying i wanna go out and walk miles. I just wanna get in the car and ride in the moutains or go see some places. I have 2 weeks left then ill be in the house for atleast 3 more months until i can work again
yrhdbdb·
Straight up, sometimes you have to be a b##h to get things done.
Aria’s Mom·
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I feel like when I want something I make it about the baby “hey honey my doctor thinks I really need to get out of the house and get exercise. It’s healthier for the baby and really vital for the last few weeks. Here’s some things going on” Manipulative: yes. Lie: Not necessarily. Effective: Yuuuup.
Aria’s Mom·
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I’m currently a SAHM with no kids too. My SO works 6 days a week. You know who I talk to the most? Our dogs 🤣 I feel your pain ♥️
Michelle 🇵🇷·
I know how you feel I am in the same situation as you. My hubby works Monday through Friday and sometimes on Saturdays too and all I do is sit in the house, clean cook and take care of our son and myself since I am pregnant with baby #2. It’s very frustrating because all he wants to do is just sit back and relax when his off work and play on his games on the phone. I’ve tried talking to him about going out but he just doesn’t want to because he’s tired and I am tired too we both work, I work in the house and he works outside the house. Even if we need to get groceries or something from the store he doesn’t even want to go and it’s frustrating. Sometimes I just want to go to the park and walk around or go to Walmart to walk around and not buy anything. Being in just the same 4 walls is very frustrating. 😒😒
Brianna Mathews·
@malbhurtado im like 15 mins from town. I try to get outside but its so hot we dont have alot of treea
Yaya Carrington·
Мама троих детей
@adalynnsmommyy Sometimes we have to make huge sacrifices for our children. Stay in bed. Read books. Color. Watch good movies. Take naps. Take up needlepoint or crochet. Learn a new language. Do crossword puzzles. Play solitaire. Listen to audiobooks...